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Leisse Wilcox  ✌🏼Mindset Coach 🖤 #YouAreLovely ⚡️#WriteYourOwnStory ✨ Get exclusive weekly content in my weekly Love Letter here:

V I I I I I B E S. We want to build the six figure income overnight. We want to move through the grief a week ago. We want the relationship of our dreams, like, yesterday. And frankly all of the waiting is getting to be a bit much. Tick freaking tock.
Slow. The hell. Down, lovely. There’s work to be done (in your mind and in the beyond). There are breaths to be had, and lessons to be learned and truths to be revealed along the way.
Give yourself the time and space to let things evolve at their own pace; let YOURSELF evolve to the place where you feel the way you want to feel, and resist the urge to force things into the way you want to feel, before you’re ready. Go slow.

“If I am in the longest relationship of my life, isn’t it time to nurture intimacy and love with the person I lie in bed with each night? Acceptance.” ✨r u p i k a u r

I picked up my copy of “the sun and her flowers” last night and it literally fell open to this page. Damn; it actually skipped my breath for a moment. This got me right at the heart of my heart, and hit all the chords of all the feelings on its way there.
This is a gentle and loving reminder that you are in a very, VERY long term, and deeply committed relationship with yourself; you are the one you will wake up to every morning from the day you come into this earth, until the day you leave it.
It’s ok to love, honour, and respect yourself intimately; I’d even argue that it’s your responsibility to do so, and that every true and meaningful success in your life ultimately stems from how secure your attachment is to you.
Nurture intimacy and love with all of the meaningful relationships in your life, by all means. Show up and give, show up and be you, show up and be present. But my lovely, please remember that the relationship at the core of it all is the one you have with you. The relationship that demands at least an equal share of presence, giving, authenticity, tenderness, and gratitude is the one that you have with yourself. Be kind to yourself today. xx

Shout out to all the people still looking over their shoulder at old relationships, old decisions, old wounds from childhood, old mistakes and oversights, old missteps and maybe even a dash or two of regret: you are writing your own story, babe - not reliving the one someone else wrote for you and handed over with your name on it.
There are no mistakes. Let your past inform you, educate you, and teach you - but don’t let it guide you. Don’t let your past dictate who you are, or who you aren’t, and don’t let it dictate what you can or can’t have.
The only way to move forward is to acknowledge, honour, and integrate your past into your whole self, and grow from there, realizing that you get to make brand new decisions with brand new outcomes every day, and that it’s never too late to do so.
Stop letting your past control your future; take a big breath, file the memories away, and put one foot in front of the other. You’ve got a new story to write, lovely, and it starts today.

Keeping it low key on this Sunday of self care. The feedback I’ve had from this week, especially after the new moon, is that people are moving through some STUUUFFFF, and feeling extra vulnerable as they do.
So this is a friendly reminder that it’s ok to lay low, drink water, have a nap, say no, water your plants, have toast and peanut butter for dinner, and generally rest easy. Maybe just stay home. Be with your family. Watch a movie and cuddle in the couch. Do whatever makes your heart happy today, and take of you.

✨Weekend vibes.
Hit me: how are you making today extra as we enjoy this gorgeous weekend?

“May love find you. Even when you are specifically, strategically, hiding from it.” Nayyirah Waheed

What you want exists, and you my love, are definitely worthy of receiving it. Keep not settling. ✨ ✨ ✨
Here’s the weird part: sometimes when you GET why you want, you start to freak out, because there is a part of you that believes deep down that you are not, in fact, worthy of receiving it. That’s when the anxiety, self doubt, self sabotage, and imposter syndrome kick in. 🖤 🖤 🖤

How do you deal with the facing the fear of getting what you want? That’s what I’m writing about in my Love Letter tomorrow, so if you want to know, click the link in my profile (at LeisseWilcox.ca)

Financial literacy is a language you learn, but the problem is, many of us never learn it properly.  Many of us openly don’t want to learn the language, and rather choose to hide behind our fears as to why it’s not for us, and why it’s ok for someone else to be responsible for our financial health.  I know this, because I lived this.  More importantly, I made the choice to live like this.
For some reason, and for a long time, I carried shame with me in association to money, and never wanted to talk or think about it.  Those feelings of shame escalated into feelings of being undervalued, and undervaluing myself. And the stark reality of being undervalued caused a dramatic turnaround in my life.
After some serious self-reflection and  intensive self-love development, I knew that those feelings were old, outdated, ripple effects from a different time, a different context, and I decided to take accountability for how I was going to change not only my mindset towards earning, having, enjoying money, but my relationship to what exactly I was going to do about it.
I made the choice to take control over learning a language that felt intimidating, unimportant, beyond my scope, inaccessible, and scary AF. It’s a genuine moment of empowerment, realizing that you have more control, more knowledge, more say, and more presence in your money than you think you do, and I’m sharing first steps on how to get there today on the blog.
Check out LeisseWilcox.ca or swipe up in my story feed today to read the full monty. You’re more capable than you think you are, in every area of your life, and it’s you who has to understand that most intimately.

✨Trust the timing of your life.
Even if it doesn’t feel like it, or even make sense right now, believe deeply that you’re always on your way to something wonderful.

There’s never a perfect time to do anything. Anytime you make a decision, especially one of those big ass life shifting decisions, you need to be smart and strategic about it - but you don’t need to wait for the perfect time. The waiting can become its own security blanket that disables you from making the change, and keeps you “safe” in what you know, versus what you want - and need.
Do the thing. Whatever it is you’ve been putting off. Whatever it is you’ve been avoiding, and waiting for the perfect moment to make it happen. Right now may just be your perfect moment to take the action you know you’re ready for. Be brave, lovely, and make it happen. What are you waiting for?

Happiness is an inside job; you are the joy that you create.
For your self care Sunday ritual today, do something that makes you feel so happy. Then do more of that.

Combing brunch and warm weather is basically fool proof weekend plan. Where in the woods is your favourite place to brunch it up right now?

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