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Shasha Shahabudin  a dreamer...a wanderer...a believer...an explorer...a romantic...a procrastinator...

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The things I allow my daughter do to me 🤦🏽‍♀️ #cuteness #cutenessoverload #happy #gembira #wacky #weird #comel #jiggy #gegila #ohanakku #happiness

Malam ni buka with Aunty Ida's Nasi Lemak and it was so good lupa nak amik gambar until pinggan dah kosong...tak sabar nak beraya esok. #jomraya #selamathariraya #lastiftar #esoksyawal #family #familia #3generations #mukakenyang #happy #gembira

A little catch up with #convent buddies before the long #HariRaya #holiday and everyone disappears out of KL. Dapat kek sedap lagi! Thank you ladies for your support. Hope you enjoy the kuah. #conventgirls #conventkajang #oldfriends #schoolmates #friends #friendship #jommakanmakan #kawanlama #kengkawan @intanmuhaida @alenaomar

Dah penat explore, he chose to chill in the shower. He whispered "mummy, your country too hot." #catlady #catlove #instacat #instapet #cat #catsofinstagram #catlover #weeklyfluff #fluffy #furry #pussycat #simba #lionking #kaputcat #scaredycat #smellycat

From concrete jungle to the village people, the lion king has not stopped exploring the courtyard #simba #lionking #indoorjungle #concretejungle #cats #catsofinstagram #weeklyfluff #furry #catlover #cat #instapet #instacat #catlove #catlady

Northern Indian food for #iftar tonight. Thank you, Linda for the #Pakodas it was #yummy #homecooked #homecookedmeal #bukapuasa #jommakanmakan #indianfood

And then...Sapa suruh aku jadi gemuk? Takde siapa...Cuma mak aku bagi aku makan masa kecik. Tuhan bagi aku rezeki, and to have an appetite when I was a child. No need for Appeton. So I suppose a mum should say no to a child who wants to eat? As My mum loves to say, "Ni salah ibu mengandung la ni?

Siapa suruh ko di lahirkan kulit hitam? Takde siapa... Just Allah chose for me to look this way. At 42, I have less wrinkles than some of my ex classmates from school. I was also blessed to never have acne problems. I also love the fact that I can berjemur and not worry about turning red! And yes, when I blush, no one will know!! So dont call me overly sensitive...when you have never walked in my shoes...I mmg dah tak kisah what others think of me. But I am not going to pretend that it wont affect others, other kids, other overweight children, other dark skinned girls. I just wish we'd be more encouraging, rather than insult. Motivate them positively. Not make them bitter and angry. Be a role model, not a bully. #bully #saynotobully #shallowness #prejudice #bigotry #lookinside #lovewhoyouare #beyou

Nape tak exercise? Nape tak diet? You think a 6 year old tahu apa tuh diet? Then bila in high school, you explore sports...and the mockery continues..."boleh ke ko lari?"So what do you think happens? Fudge sports, I'll just hide in my room or in books and not have to face all this crap. Then the couch potato starts watching TV, and suddenly realised that in order to be beautiful, you need to be fair and lovely...Skin peeling was soooo in, that having botched red faces is ok for the sake of being white! Baru la jantan pandang ko. "Pengantin tuh cantik...putih, segak dorang tuh," Everytime pretty or beautiful is mentioned, being fair skinned is almost always automatically mentioned too...synonymous tuh. That term "hitam manis" is a sugar coat to sejukkan hati orang kulit gelap...Apa hal doh...? You take photos at nights, and friends and family will comment, "nampak gigi je kot" and laughs.
LAUGHS...If this isnt being bullied, I dont know what this is then...laugh...well done, people, for making bullying a cultural norm...no, Watsons tak bersalah kan...sensitive sangat la ko ni... neither is Karl Lagerfeld wrong for saying Adele tuh tak lawa langsung...In regards to Watsons TVC, the reaction from that "orang kaya" upon seeing a black face was like deja vu. The shock. The disgust. Asking if the lights are off?! You do realise that asshole kids will pick up this line and use it on his day-to-day activities, right? So what "Orang kaya" tu choose Dayang senandung in the end despite being dark...So, it's cool to refer dark-skin to ugliness? Sure, despite her being dark ugly, the orang kaya was still nice enough to still want her? Suddenly the Orang kaya becomes the hero and the bigger person despite initially being disgusted by her blackness...oh and the reaction from the rest of the crowd on his decision to choose her. So, being dark equals ugly. The fact that it's perfectly normal and ok to behave this way...That is why I am pissed off with the Watson ad.
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Here's a photo of me enjoying my food in the hot sun (This was a photo from a couple of years back...not taken during this Ramadan...jangan lak cuba nak question my faith)...Because I dont care that you will laugh at me for being FAT and HITAM. I used to. But not anymore.

So maybe I am sensitive...coming to 42 years on this planet, I have never been the standard mold of a perfect Asian woman...according to perception of course. Born a big baby...Grew up as a chubby toddler...Hit puberty as a fat teenager. I then became an obese mother...and to top it all off, I was hitam! Now, you will probably start thinking, "she's being too sensitive..shouldnt care what others think, just believe in yourself. Just motivate yourself and make the change." What bull crap?! Are you a moron? Fact is, so many out there has already insulted you...why change the fat and dark only? Why not change the morons who insulted you? Why not change this negative attitude of putting people down? Yup. and me calling you a moron is a by-product of this disease...Why allow this kind of bullying to be the norm? I suppose having someone call you "baby elephant" from the tender age of 5 is ok? You start being conscious to move because your fat ass goes jiggly when you walk, that your friends and relatives will say, "bergegar lantai woi." I just stopped jumping. I just stopped skipping coz nanti orang kutuk...How about, going up to a child and asking her "camne la ko ni hitam bila mak ko tuh kulit putih?" that kecik2 you dah explore whitening products. Sampai takut nak main outdoor kang kulit jadi hitam. Then you start hating your dad for being dark. Then you question Allah for making you "ugly". You start believing being dark is ugly. That your self esteem goes down the drain from such a young age. Dah la hitam, gemuk pulak tuh. I once dated a man who said, "I tak leh kahwin ngan you...pasal Mak I takkan terima menantu badan besar, gelap, dah tuh, janda.." err...why date me then? grrr... ....next post...

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