Happy new year peeps🥂: I never posted this pic at 9 months pregnant at the time because I felt so huge! Life isn’t always exactly what it seems on social media it’s often a tip of the iceberg or a mere crevice of it (better or worse) so don’t hold people to what they post or judge their entire being by that. You NEVER know what goes on behind closed doors (offline) so use it as just another dimension to life and nothing more.
Last year I got married, had a baby, made a few breakthroughs in work, things couldn’t have been better, but there were definitely moments where I felt like my sock was stuck in the middle of my toe, welded inside my boot that I couldn’t take off (did you ever see that meme?😅). I never spoke about this: Delivering Suri was a total shocker (I still haven’t done my birth-story post yet for this reason), breastfeeding and post-partum for me was so so hard and I also had to get my head around some really brutal and painful friendship breakups, unfollows and blockages that I never saw coming. Social media for me is about keeping it real, sassy, not letting other people’s shit get you down, loving yourself primarily and not compromising what you stand for to fit other people’s ways. Life is about loving the people close to you fiercely, not getting caught up into a materialistic blunder and ensure you’re living in the now and in the moment as that is all that matters.
If that means using it to celebrate the highs and paint the pretty picture that you want for yourself, then do it. Or if you want to vent about your pain then do that too, this platform is your oyster so use it, just take other people’s feed lightly and don’t judge too much, that’s what I always try and remember anyway💫. Anyways can’t I wait for 2019! I have some really fun things coming up💄*💫 &?👸🏽 beauty, fashion, motherhood and LIFE so stay tuned (or not 😋) so much love xxxxx