Once you Know better it's time to Do better I am a strong believer in 2nd chances... And 3rd and 4th. I have stood by and for many people that I love too much not to offer that type of love. A lesson in Grace I learned by people that loved me & offered me this same type of love. A love that sees your flawed bits and pieces and still chooses you. My parents, siblings, a small handful of Life long sister friends and my significant other, they demonstrate tangible grace towards me and I am honored to return the kindness.
But when does that extension of grace become an unhealthy and uneven exchange?
I speak on this from my own experience, I understand that my interpretation is based on my perception. But I also know many walk in these murky places without ever hearing a sound reason behind a different way to live. Been there done that! So take whatever sounds good and leave the rest! We are each responsible for our own life. Only by our choice do we partner in this life with others. For love, for family bond, for legal purposes- whatever it may be. You only truly learn who someone really is with time and if you so choose.. You continue to walk with them. But what happens when that grace you extend becomes a blatant excuse for creating avenues of more hurts? So many different situation I could reference here, but the same answer applies to most!
YOU ALONE hold the decision to allow and continue to allow ANYONE persons life/ choices/ results/ fruit or lack there of- in your life on a daily basis. If you are being caused pain and anxiety and depression and self harm and hate and anger by someone else-You are in fact allowing it. Stop the madness! You decide! Walk away, create space, draw a line, change your phone number, move away, whatever "choosing differently" may look like for that situation. You DON'T have to continue living this way! #30DayTransformationTeam
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