What is your normal?! .
You base your normal on things that you have observed all your life, things that people have told you, things you experienced and things you have lived. We base our life on what we experience but is your "normal" the normal that is TRUE?! .
Disfunctional behaviour comes from a place of accepting non normal, damaging behaviour as your new "normal". Is living a life of loneliness, depression, fear, worry, unforgiveness, bitterness, anger your new normal? .
Can I ask - what are you comparing your "normal" to or should I say what are you comparing your TRUTH to?! .
Are you comparing your truth - your future to your past disfunction, pain and disappointment? To your family's past abuse, your last unhealthy relationship, your lost career, dreams and hopes? Are you living in your past and creating your future based on your past brokeness? Are they becoming your truths NOW? Don't settle for anything less than GREATNESS! .
When you know who you are you will know who you are not! If you don't know who you are you will morph into any identity that people or society around you label you with! You will not change into someone you were meant to be nor into someone who is destined for greatness but into someone who has been fashioned to conform, fit in and shut up! You will start putting on masks and adapting to various personality types depending on who you are with, and once they are all gone you will be left feeling confused, ending up not accepting your true self. YOU. .
So is that your current normal? Are you letting the world predict your worth, who you are, what you are capable of - your normal? .
I am ugly, unskilled, tired, hurting, lost, unworthy, old, fragile, a pushover, just a number... STOP right there! .
Let me tell you about who you really are and about the normal you deserve:
You are fearfully and wonderfully made, you are unique, skilled, talented and beautiful just the way you are, full of potential and life! Fact. Remind yourself DAILY, write it down, say it out loud - whatever it takes! .
Never settle for less! You were made for greatness - always align your normal with truth not feelings! .
Happy Tuesday! 😊❤️