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JULIET ALLEN  • Leading Australian Sexologist & Coach • Host of the AUTHENTIC SEX Podcast • #thejulietpleasurewand connecting you to your true sexual essence

“My Juliet Pleasure Wand feels like my healer, my friend and a powerful ally on my journey of sexual awakening that continues to unfold.
I sleep with her (it) every night and love using her as part of my self-pleasure and yoni de-armouring practice. I adore the healing energy of Rose Quartz that I feel penetrates me deeply and helps me to drop into the deepest parts of myself.
I have had many profound healing moments using my wand, feeling time transcend and experiencing armour in my yoni melt away.
Love Love Love! Thank you, Juliet!”
— Leela
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“The usual hero adventure begins with someone from whom something has been taken, or who feels there is something lacking in the normal experience available or permitted to the members of society. The person then takes off on a series of adventures beyond the ordinary, either to recover what has been lost or to discover some life-giving elixir. It's usually a cycle, a coming and a returning.”
— Joseph Campbell
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Artist // ‘Ourobouros: Pere Lachaise series by Stuart Inman, 2010

Oral sex is a hot topic, in fact it’s something I get asked about A LOT, by both women AND men. Reality is every woman varies in what she wants and needs when it comes to receiving oral sex (and some women don’t want it at all, which is completely okay). What we all have in common is that we all want to be great lovers ... and we all want to feel worshipped, sexually. So, for those of you who want to learn more, specifically about pleasuring women with your mouth, here’s a couple of extra resources I’ve written for bedtime reading. Link in bio! Love, Juliet x

Confirming another magical weekend in a secret location. Life is one hell of a rollercoaster, that’s for sure ... as a result I’ve been choosing to spend way less time on social and way more time focussing on my loved ones and personal life ... plus the creation of my new online course. Oh, and a couple of beautiful new products that you’re going to LOVE. More details coming soon! Happy Monday. Love, Juliet xo

Is it just me or does anyone else sometimes feel like telling self-love to FUCK OFF? Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about getting super comfortable with who I am, and am 100% committed to the never ending quest for WHOLENESS and marriage between my own inner feminine and masculine energy ...
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HOWEVER ... I also feel and want to acknowledge the importance and appreciation I have for feeling held by our loved ones. Self love and solitude is important, yes, but equally as important is our need as humans for touch, affection, love, intimacy, listening, receiving, closeness ... feeling love from others and feeling supported and held by others.
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My point is, it’s okay to reach out to your friends, family and partner/lovers. It’s okay to yearn for human connection and intimacy. It’s okay to want sexual connection with others. You don’t have to do this life alone. Yes, a little bit of self-love and self-pleasure goes a long way, and yes, solitude is essential. But equally as important is UNION with loved ones. And often the biggest spiritual journey is to dive deep into life and love with others humans.
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Artist // @ineslongevial

“The doors to the world of the wild Self are few but precious. If you have a deep scar, that is a door, if you have an old, old story, that is a door. If you love the sky and the water so much you almost cannot bear it, that is a door. If you yearn for a deeper life, a full life, a sane life, that is a door.”
- Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Women Who Run With the Wolves
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"Your crystal wand has saved my marriage. Our marriage has felt really disconnected and near extinct for 10 years. I was so close to divorcing my husband, and I thought fuck it, I'm ordering The Juliet Pleasure Wand as a gift to myself ... I'd denied pleasure for FAR too long. And honestly, it's woken my pussy up on a level I didn't even know existed ... and it seems to be rubbing off on him too! Thank you for creating such a mind blowing, life changing wand." - Anonymous
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Love, Love, love the above review of The Juliet crystal wand! Good news, both the Clear Quartz and Rose Quartz are BACK IN STOCK. Jump in quick, these beautiful pleasure items sell out quick!
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"One can be in deep love and yet be alone. In fact, one can be alone only when one is in deep love. The depth of love creates an ocean around you, a deep ocean, and you become an island, utterly alone. Yes, the ocean goes on throwing its waves on your shore, but the more the ocean crashes with its waves on your shore, the more integrated you are, the more rooted, the more centered you are. Love has value only because it gives you aloneness. It gives you space enough to be on your own.
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But you have an idea of love; that idea is creating trouble – not love itself, but the idea. The idea is that, in love, lovers disappear into each other, dissolve into each other. Yes, there are moments of dissolution – but this is the beauty of life and all that is existential: that when lovers dissolve into each other, the same are the moments when they become very conscious, very alert. That dissolution is not a kind of drunkenness, that dissolution is not unconscious. It brings great consciousness, it releases great awareness. On the one hand they are dissolved – on the other hand for the first time they see their utter beauty in being alone. The other defines them, their aloneness; they define the other. And they are grateful to each other. It is because of the other that they have been able to see their own selves; the other has become a mirror in which they are reflected. Lovers are mirrors to each other. Love makes you aware of your original face.
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Hence, it looks very contradictory, paradoxical, when stated in such a way: "Love brings aloneness." You were thinking all along that love brings togetherness. I am not saying that it does not bring togetherness, but unless you are alone you cannot be together. Who is going to be together? Two persons are needed to be together, two independent persons are needed to be together. A togetherness will be rich, infinitely rich, if both the persons are utterly independent. If they are dependent on each other, it is not a togetherness – it is a slavery, it is a bondage.
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If they are dependent on each other, clinging, possessive, if they don't allow each other to be alone ... continued in comments. {OSHO}

What are the foundations of GREAT sex? How can I create a life that makes room for great sex, daily? What are the secrets of people who have the ‘dream’ sex life?
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I’m excited to announce that I am FINALLY creating a new online course that so many of you have requested! In the course (which will be accessible to anyone and everyone, worldwide) I will answer all these questions and SO MUCH MORE. Stay tuned! Be the first to know about how you can access the course by signing up to my newsletter on the HOME page of my website, link in bio.
Love, Juliet xo
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Artist // @francoishenrigalland

"I was really dubious about The Juliet Pleasure Wand ... do I want something hard inside me? Will it fit? Is this a fad? What if, what if? Today, she's the best gift I've let into my life ... my fucking awesome wand has become a daily meditation companion and self-pleasuring tool.
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When I hold her, I feel a softening of my soul which leads me to deep self love and compassion. It’s not all about the pleasure, she helps me connect quicker to myself.
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When inside me I feel a clearing of all the sexual trauma I've carried, as well as a clearing of residue from past relationships. This wand feels alive and the best part is the incredibly surprising depths of pleasure she brings.
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Whoever enters my pussy after this wand is going to be the luckiest person in the world! Thank you so much, Juliet!"
- Samantha @moyo_samantha
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Good news is, The Juliet Rose Quartz Pleasure Wands are back in stock on my website, worldwide discrete shipping. Get in quick, these crystals always sell out fast. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Learn about eight simple ways that you can begin your own cock worshipping practice today. Follow link in bio to read the full article on my blog, or listen to episode 014 of my AUTHENTIC SEX podcast - available on iTunes, Spotify & Soundcloud. Happy Hump Day! Juliet xo
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SEX & AFTERCARE
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The moments/minutes/hours after sex are JUST as important as the sex itself. Why? Well think about it, during sex we open ... we open physically, emotionally and spiritually. We open ourselves up to be seen in the (often) messy, raw and vulnerable act that sex is. Most of us engage in sex because we are wanting to connect - this goes for every situation ... from one night stands, to threesomes, to daily love-making between beloveds. We all want the same thing - to connect deeply with other humans at all centres in our body. Aftercare is the opportunity to connect even deeper by honouring and deeply respecting the person who opened to us.
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What this means is we need to say goodbye to some of the common ways people instantly disconnect after sex: falling asleep straight away, getting up and racing to the toilet to get rid of the condom, rushing to the shower to clean up, checking our phone, rushing off to work etc etc.
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Instead, TAKE YOUR TIME. Just BE with your lover/s. Hold them in your arms. Look into their eyes. Notice your breathing. Just simply be with whatever arises after sex. Your lover may cry, laugh or lie in stillness ... all is perfect. Deep presence is what creates space for the aftercare magic to unfold. And great aftercare creates trust and openness, which leads to our lovers wanting MORE sex with us because they trust that they will be looked after in the moments after SEX. So, it’s a win win for everyone involved.
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And, don’t be afraid to ask for what you personally need as aftercare! Your lover won’t know what you need until you communicate it to them. A personal example is I need presence, lots of cuddles and loving touch, eye contact ... and not to be rushed. My partner knows this, and provides this for me every time. He does this because I communicated this is what I need right from the moment we first made love. Simple as that.
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Artist // @filippaedghill

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