My desires in a relationship have changed over time. I no longer want someono who promises to always love me and never leave me. I need someone who understands that life happens and sometimes things don’t work out. I don’t want someone who sugar coats things and never gets angry with me. I need someone to tell me how it really is and put me in my place. I need to be able to go five hours without talking to you and not feel lost or incomplete. I am complete without you. But with you , I want to be so much better. I want to be stronger with you. I want us to grow together and help each other grow individually. I don’t need you , but I really fucking want you. And this may not work out , but the fact that you understand all of this and this how our relationship works , makes me think we’ve got a pretty good shot.