It takes a special kind of woman/man to love a child that's not biologically theirs. An amazing man/woman loves a child just like it's theirs no matter what the circumstances are with the biological parent. So if you have someone genuinely loving & making the effort to be apart of your child's life, DO NOT make it hard on them! Instead welcome that person with open arms & help make the connection even stronger with the child. Have them communicate with him/her. Have them talk on the phone, play games together, video chat, read together, etc... It will only pay off in the long run!! The more people to love your child the better!