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Je suis Parte  Introverted writer 📖️ that produces music 🎹️ and videos📷 ⏭ Download my music for free ⏮ 👇 👇 👇Watch my latest video👇 👇 👇

✏⬇Is love a game ?⬇✏
I guess love and relationships are interesting games. Maybe it is different for you but I guess a relationship is my inner fight of what I want to feel and what is the best to keep the relationship alive. As a (hobby) psychologist I know exactly what I have to do so that my partner is still interested in me. I know what actions attract my partner. Sadly these actions aren't always what my inner child wants. And my inner child just wants to love. It wants to make the partner feel good. It wants to give the partner aaaall my attention. 24/7. It doesn't want to fight and just to harmonize.
Again : If I say "I love you" it is a phrase that says something about me. Not about you. I love you because it is a wonderful feeling to make you feel good. What means I love myself for "loving" you. However my inner child attracts the partner only a short period of time because a human that is giving you all you need without expecting anything back is getting boring. Is getting normal. Normal is something that isn't enough for society.
So there is this inner conflict that tells me : "Love her. It means loving yourself. It is wonderful." And : "Your partner can't handle pure love. She will runaway when you do everything for her."
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✏⬇National pride⬇✏
National pride is one of the most stupid things you can have. The football world cup is a good example where national pride awakes every 4 years. Of course I was happy when "my germans" in 2014 won the world cup because I knew the players a long time. Same now with france. For sure the people are happy that their team won this cup but why is it "their team" ? What have the players in common with the people ? Maybe they can speak french. Some of them grew up in france but this is all. I don't get where the connection is. Where the reason is to say "this is my team". Same with your nation. For example I as a german have nothing to do with what happened 70 years ago when the germans fought wars.
Just my 2 cents.
P.S. : I am no model. My head was just itching.
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✏⬇Therapy⬇✏
I am totally convinced there must be a rule/opportunity/law that everybody needs to visit a psychologist. Maybe one time per month. This opportunity must be given by the government - for free. Why ? If everything is fine - everything will stay fine for you. If you have mental problems you will get help or at least someone that listens to you.
Imagine what this could change ! Suicide rates, depressions and violence etc. would decrease what means lower costs for the government so they have the money to pay the psychologists. Mental health is the key. We have to focus on it !
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✏⬇Dislikes⬇✏
A thing that annoys me is the dislike function of Youtube. I don't get why you have to spread that much negativity. This function is so damn unnecessary. You know I have a YouTube account too where I upload my music etc. and of course I am happy that I have just a few dislikes on my videos but how can I use this information ? Lets say I have 20 likes and 2 dislikes. What is the exact information here ? Two people didn't like this video but I don't know why and if I don't know why I can not use this information. It is unnecessary. It can only give the viewers a tendency if the video is good. But the amount of likes in relation to the views could also give you an information about the quality of the video so these dislikes are unnecessary. When I first uploaded a video 7 years ago I had 30 likes and 30 dislikes and I really thought I am a useless piece of shit. You can imagine this didn't better my depression. So please. Dear YouTube. Throw this dislike function in the dustbin.
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✏⬇Grateful⬇✏
I think being grateful is one important way to happiness. Just like progress. Isn't it amazing that YOU won this race of all these sperms ? That your parents had sex in the perfect moment when you were ready to conquer the world ? Maybe you went through a lot of shit but look at you. You are still here. You are stronger than you think. 80 percent of self-talk is negative. Let that sink for a moment. Maybe you are thinking about some problems in your life and they depress you. Just let me tell you that everything can change in a minute. It is simply stupid to overthink a situation of the past over and over again. Accept it. You are not perfect and you don't have to be.
In moments of anger and frustration I love to look at the stars. So much what we don't know. The earth is so little in relation of what exists in the universe. In the next moment a comet could hit the earth. Another high intelligent species could visit us. A god could come and say : Just kidding guys this earth thing was just a stupid idea. Time to go to heaven.
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✏⬇Generation S⬇✏
You know I worked 3 years in a school and I saw as soon as the kids are having a pause they are checking their phones. Usually smartphones are forbidden in school but the other teachers didn't say anything and I was the only one that followed the rules and took their phones when I saw them. Asshole guarantee. I know. However I was really disappointed by the teachers. We have now an entire generation that grows up with a smartphone in their hands. With apps and social media that reward them so they get usually addicted to that dopamine boost. You can imagine there was a reason why Steve Jobs didn't want to give his kids an iPad or iPhone. So if we are giving kids these highly addicitve smartphones it is the same as we would let them smoke or drink alcohol. We need to control this before it controls us. There must be rules. For app users and creators.
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✏⬇Keep going⬇✏
We are all the same. This is why you make the difference. It is just as simple as that.
Keep going. The world needs you. Doesn't matter if you are a nurse or a caretaker. When I sell pizza to these drunken people at night it doesn't matter what job they have. If you are nice to me I am nice to you. And trust me a lot of drunken people act like the biggest assholes in the world because they think "Ah look at him he is just a stupid pizza man. He didn't learn anything in his life, he hasn't any value, we can show him who is the boss." Sometimes it isn't easy for me to act nice when they act like they think they have more value than me because my ego says "Oh shut the fuck up you lil fucker. I could go the same easy way like you but I decided to cancel university for my dreams" but instead of saying this I have to be nice because my boss wants me to sell pizza. So if I can do that you can do that too.
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✏⬇An exercise⬇✏
If you did any sport in your life you know it is important to stretch your body. Your legs. Your arms. Everything. You need preparation so I have this brand new exercise for you to start the day right. You can do this while you are reading the steps :
At first you need to stretch your arms. Reach them out as long as you can. Make a fist. Breath. Breath again. Then you take the third finger of each hand and you stretch them too. Hold this position. Breath. Breath again. And then say : "I don't give a fuck about what you think of me. I am wonderful."
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✏⬇Sleep⬇✏
A lot of people say things like : "Fuck sleep. Use this time to work !" or "Sleep is the cousin of death".
Completely bullshit. Let us see this from a logical point of view : What is better ? Working 15 hours per day while feeling miserable, empty and tired or working 10 hours fully concentrated and motivated ? For sure your outcome will be better if you work concentrated. Especially in times of the smartphone where you have to be available 24/7 and you are searching for the next dopamine boost it is incredible important to give your mind and body pauses. I need and love to sleep 8-10 hours per day. I tried to reduce the amount but in the end I am too tired to concentrate. How long do you sleep ?
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JUST SLEEP !
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✏⬇Migraine⬇✏
I always can't believe that there are people that don't know what it feels like to suffer from migraine. Let me tell you the process : We as "migraine-people" know exactly when we will spend the day with migraine. It's called an aura. When you suffer from an aura you usually feel any signs of an upcoming migraine (for example a numb head or it's difficult to see clear). Migraine is often caused by a lot of stress and the fact of feeling an aura itself can probably put even more stress on you what leads to an even harder migraine. A circle. What does it feel to suffer from migraine ? It feels like somebody put razor blades in your head and shakes your head over and over again and you can't escape because all of that happens in your brain. And you are your brain. It's not like having a broken leg and it only hurts when you try to walk. It hurts when you try to think and you are always thinking. It is pure pain. Sadly the brain medicine isn't on a level where doctors can heal the origins of a migraine. I talk about it because I suffer from migraine weekly. I am a working machine and I guess my body tells me when to pause. When I studied on university I got a migraine attack that lasted 3 days. Exactly at the time where I had to write 4 tests. I even went to the hospital because I couldn't help myself. I put so much stress on myself because of the tests that this migraine attack had to happen. I wasn't really convinced of my university course even though I wrote good notes I decided to cancel university. For my body. I sworn I will never put so much stress on myself again for something that I don't really wanna do.
However there are good sides of a migraine too. The day after you are happy to live without any pain and you value life and get humble. You get creative boosts and thousand ideas what is perfect for me as a composer and producer.
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✏⬇Like a flower⬇✏
Be like a flower. Absorb the light in your life. Take it. It is yours. Protect yourself in the darkness. It is okay to grow up with thorns. Be happy when it rains. You can't enjoy your ups without experiencing your downs. Life is also about giving so give the little bees what they need. On the other hand you are blessed with your own fragrance. Something what belongs only to you. Your unique feature. And when it is the right time - spread your seeds. Your wisdom.
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✏⬇Be real⬇✏
When we meet we usually say "hey, how are you ?" and I sadly discovered many people don't really wanna know more about your feelings. It seems like this phrase "hey, how are you?" lost its meaning and importance. Many people just say that because.. everybody says that to be politely but I don't want you to be politely. I want you to be real. Show empathy. People need that. So if you ask someone then you should be really interested in the answer. It is just a little thing but these little things can help humanity.
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