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InaHolub_plussizevintage  SHOP OWNER Vintage ExtraschΓΆn 1070 Wien, STYLIST, PLUS SIZE MODEL, QUEER, -FEMINIST BLOGGERESS (german & english) from Vienna

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today I bought some shirts. (swipe left)
I noticed that nearly every shop I was going in, and especially those who sell clothes that are very (too) cheap, have a lot of political statement shirts and quite feminist ones. I have some thoughts on that. on one hand I think its good when people wear those shirts, because although they are trend - to wear them, to get people looking at them and also get people to connect them with the owner makes a political statement and thats also when the owner just wears it for being fashionable - language forms reality.
but reality especially nowadays is far far away from what is on this shirts.
we are experiencing a severe backlash. those shirts kind of mock all feminists and queer people, using deep political phrases for entertaining mainstreamsociety, which probably thinks that this would be a sign that equality is already gained. (its not)
just wearing a "feminist" tshirt like its sold in many shops now doesn't make you a feminist at all. its more about how you act, what is important for you, how you reflect about yourself and yourself in society, how you think about gender, be aware of who has (more) priviliges and who doesn't, why is that and what is your part of this system or how you maybe even benefit of it although you don't like it, ... (list is very long haha)

still. I like to wear them too, especially for dancing. guess its just important to be aware that everything you do has political meaning and impact and is worth to overthink it again and again. 🌈
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flowers from my wife. got them a few days ago and still so happy about them. its not only the flowers themselfes, its about what is behind. oh I wished for my 10 year old (and 20 year old and 28 year old erm..) self to know that this kind of love is possible for me. as a lesbian, as a depressed and desperate little fat freek not finding a place in this world full of cruelty, disrespect, war, structural oppression, discrimination, lookism, phobia.. or simple: patriarchy. I am
so happy. we are really interested in each other, empower ourselfs, critisise, look after each other. And thats not although, thats because we are talking about every possible theme, ending, happening. about everything. we are and we life extremes and diversity, and be on the same time a place of peace of tranquility. we fight a lot, and we reconcile even more.
I love her. πŸ–€ 🌴
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this is to @rozthediva @amandalacount @nakitende_esther @missannastomosis @themirnavator @glitterandlazers ..who do sports to be strong, feel good or just for fun, not to be skinny. who may have bodies society don't connect with training or health.
you empower me (and lot of others) to do sports especially when I am the only fat one in class.

today I got my ticket for a @impulstanz #voguing workshop with archie burnett in august! I am so happy to be there and excited about it, on the same time, especially when I am looking at pictures or videos from past years, I am curious about how I will feel there and how people will react. In my regular rather small and quite queer course everything is super perfect. I am afraid that this will be different in this large and very expensive course in august. that there are possibly much more people I would consider being part of mainstreamsociety, such as being white, rich, thin, cis, heterosexual. And that means people who are more used to think in stereotypes .
like : this fat woman (me) can't be a good dancer, or any sporty spice at all, is exhausted after 5 seconds, has no discipline, ...
I decided to take all what they could think of or say and be open, offensive, loud, clear with it. for that reason shirts and bras like those on the picture perfectly come in handy. especially those which are made or designed by feminists or myself. I have the idea when everything they could say has already a positive connotation too, or is simply a fact that I am already aware of, it can't affect me any more. (this week I will also write about why I am not only happy about the trend with such shirts now)
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I run my own business, and can do for a living what I really like. I know that I know a lot about vintage clothes, that I am kind of good talking with people and that I am creative.
but still. I would never have naturally this seemly endless confidence that white heterosexual cismen have. this pure feeling of being sexy intelligent or simply enough the way I am. and thats although I am already privileged because of living in austria, being white, having a mother who has money. I am fat, feminist, and lesbian. Thats enough to be watched and talked about on streets like they are allowed to, like they do it with babys or animals in the zoo. I am simply not worth of being treated with respect, of being seen as an subject not an object. there is no equal place in mainstreamsociety for me. I have a queer antiracist antilookistic homo-surrounding, with people that reflect their socialisation. and I have internet. I talked to M. why I am on instagram and whats it about. and I said that its so much about empowerment, about networking, support. to see that this is not it. that there are so much more fat femme queer homo persons, that I am not alone with my feelings, with my experiences. oh how I would loove to tell all this my 10 year old self.
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