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Idil Ahmed  Universal 🌐 Entrepreneur πŸ’‘ Investing in life πŸ“š Conscious living 🌿 Science Enthusiast πŸ”¬

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Love this powerful post by @_thekylejones!
There is a huge misconception that we are responsible for how our partners feel. Your partner's failure to feel loved has everything to do with their self-connection; and nothing to do with you.
Caring for someone, you naturally want to them to experience peace, love, and happiness. If this person is not experiencing these feelings, part of you believes your efforts are responsible.
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Chances are, you attracted a partner who uses you to abandon themselves; and you abandon yourself to help fix their issues. This is wrong. Here's why:
* Your partner's feelings are not yours to deal with. Feelings are information from their emotional guidance system β€” letting them know what needs healing within themselves.
* When you help your partner with their issues, they become emotionally dependent. Your partner expects you sacrificing self-love to love them. By the time you see how unloving you have become to yourself, in the process of caring for your partner, they'll make it hard for you to leave. They'll guilt-trip you or become narcissistic. It's best letting your partner take responsibility for their feelings from the beginning; rather than letting things get out of hand.
* Neither of you are growing because growth happens individually; and then enhances the collective. When you self-abandon to take care of your partner, both of your soul evolution becomes stagnant. Part of you could believe you are helping your partner cope with his or her feelings; but those feelings are actually becoming stuck inside and amplifying in intensity β€” eventually ruining your relationship.
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The best thing to do is stop attempting to fix your partner. Explain to them the importance of taking responsibility for their feelings; and how essential it is for a growing relationship. Tell them: I have to love, heal, and find peace with myself; and then share my emotional clarity with you. As well, you have to love, heal, and find peace with yourself; and then share your emotional clarity with me. Our relationship will fail continuing depending on each other to fix our self-created issues.

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I'm going to start speaking great things into existence for my life. I know how powerful my mind is. I know how powerful my words are. I'm going to start attracting everything I want, by becoming what I ask for. Change starts with me. I'm not my past. Starting today, I'll stop telling that old story and rewrite my life. What I'm looking for is inside of me. I'm going to align with my spirit and trust the wisdom I receive. I'm ready to receive. I'm ready to be blessed. I know happiness, love, and peacefulness is an inside job. I'm going to do the self-work now. I'll start start replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. Everything I speak, think, or feel will be focused on what I want. I'm going to be kind and patient with myself during the process of manifesting my visions. I believe in myself.
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Realizing what's important and what really matters in this thing called life while I sit on this 5,000 year old cave in Laas Geel. Self-awareness is the key that unlocks the doors of reality, and the minute we learn how to guide our thoughts we become free from burden of unconsciously creating our reality.
Wake up call:
Most of the pain, confusion, and problems we experience is due to the fact that we haven't been taught how to use our mind. We are experts at everything else, but the self; the mind. We've been taught to put most of our energy on the outside, and wait for external gratification to be internally happy. This is why most people who gain material wealth tell you, "money doesn't buy happiness!" Trying to fill the void is killing time, which is slowly killing you. Don't lose another moment of happiness, thinking that one day it will come.
Know thyself:
Since the mind has been diverted from the true self, we deal with a lot of negativity and don't even realize we are creating it. To know oneself is the freedom of chaos, it's the key to peace, and the connection to compassion. Start paying attention to what you're giving your energy to. Where are your thoughts going all day long? Most don't realize that they think the same thoughts every single day. It's like it's on auto-repeat. Break the vicious cycle.
We just want to be happy:
Our authentic self desires love, happiness, joy, and anything that makes us feel good. Don't believe that it's outside of yourself. Most painful experiences comes from tying our happiness to things and losing it. This is why you have to switch how you see reality and suddenly everything will bring you joy. You shift your energy to start to experience life from a reality you didn't know existed. All it took was a switch of the mind and suddenly you're aligned with how you feel.

Invest in yourself:
Invest in your mind, your body, and your soul. Declare today that you'll no longer give your power to things outside of yourself. This is where true personal empowerment lies; the power to guide your thoughts, to create your reality.
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This is what gratitude looks like. I met this beautiful soul in Somalia. Even-though she has been without food, water, and basic necessities due to the drought in Somalia, she still held a smile of gratitude. Her eyes tell a story. Her skin shows an expression. Her smile speaks for itself. I was humbled to speak with her, but her attitude of hope during such hard times showed how resilient we really can be if we stay positive. She lives a nomadic life, yet she continues to believe that everything will workout for her. She prayed days and nights for help. She told me she put it in God's hands and knew her prayers were soon going to be answered. When she saw the #LoveArmy arriving with months supply of food and water, she knew her prayers were answered. She even reminded me that God works through people to provide your needs. It's so humbling to see how strong people are.
Lessons 1: We always have to remember how blessed we are to have the basic necessities for living. No problem is too big to overcome.
Lesson 2: We have to believe that our prayers, and visualizations will always be answered through faith.

I'm humbled to be apart of this journey and honored to be able to do humanitarian work in Somalia with @jeromejarre @chakabars @mataano!
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The universe is getting ready to make a delivery in your life πŸ“¦πŸŽπŸ“­!!! All your hard-work and effort to evolve and get better hasn't gone unnoticed. You're about to be compensated in a major way. The prayers you thought were unanswered prayers may have been answered in ways you didn't see as a huge blessing. Everything is working out for you even when it seems like it's falling apart. Some things need to be cleared out of your life to make room for new energy and experiences. Be at peace and celebrate what's coming. You're about to get a delivery!
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So many great things are coming your way. Don't be afraid of new beginnings. If you're going through a bump in the road or feel unsure, don't worry. You're on the right track, because with any great change, a shedding of the "old ways" is required. Anytime we're in a transformative state we get kind of uncomfortable, because we're not use to it. Sometimes we even desire going back to old habits, just to avoid this feeling. I'm here to tell you don't be afraid. Don't shy away. Don't hide from it. Allow change to flow through your life. As you become more aware, you'll start to take conscious control over your life. You'll no longer be a victim of circumstances, but rather a creator of your reality. Everything in your life is about to change. Be little more patient and trust the process. Understand that patience means trust. It means you believe you'll receive the seed you've sowed. Don't let worry, fear, and anxiety make you dig up what you've planted just to see if its growing. If you didn't know before, there's a very important universal law called "The Law of Gestation" this law basically means that there is a natural process and order to things once they have been planted. This law works in nature; growing trees, food, and even all reproduction systems. The truth is right in front of our faces even if we don't pay attention. This is why we have to learn to respect and honor the process. When it comes to our goals and our dreams, we expect things to happen, like, yesterday. And when they don’t show up in the timeline that we want or the way that we expect, our doubts and limiting beliefs come into play. Our negative mind chatter creeps up and starts blurring our vision. You have to believing that life is perfect, and timing is life's best friend. Trust the process, and have faith in the unseen. The minute you decide on a goal or have a strong vision in what it is you want to accomplish, the energy starts moving through you, and begins the work. Everything is in fruition! Your vision will be realized. Just believe!
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My mindset is evolving and I’m getting more and more focused on my goals. The old ways aren’t working for me anymore. I can’t waste time pretending to do things that don’t bring excitement into my life. It's hard to waste time and be involved in things that drain my energy when I know I can do and be so much more. I have to take full responsibility for my reality. I have to acknowledge the power of my thoughts and actually direct them towards the results I want. I have to change my habits towards productivity. I’m learning and getting to know myself. I don’t want to be distracted from my purpose any longer my meaningless activities. If I’m being distant during my self-work, don’t take it personal. I need this time to discover who I am and what I’m here to do.

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Your message has been received by the universe. You efforts, your visualizations, and your prayers have been heard. You sent the signal out, now you just have to trust and be patient as your blessings start to flow into your life. Don't think about how it will happen, that's not for you to worry about. Put it out there and let it happen. The universe picks up vibrations and those in gratitude, joy, and love for what they want to receive get them. The grateful get showered in blessings. Don't block what's coming by thinking negatively. What you want has been on the way, but your worry, doubt, and lack of trust has been slowing down the process. Start releasing and start receiving. You got this.

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Many of us try to bring people with us on our journey, who are not ready to grow. We try to make them understand something, they can't comprehend. We try to give them a vision to see the bigger picture, but they remain blind to that wisdom. It's not your fault. You have to stop blaming yourself for other people's lack of awareness. You can't force people to evolve.

Awakening to your truth:

When your vibration is increasing and you're becoming more aware of life, your interest and outlook will start to change. In the transition of understanding yourself, you'll realize how much you're growing and changing as a person. In this process, your inner reality starts shifting, so your outer reality can mold itself to match your new vibration. During this time, the behaviors, habits, and choices of the people around you won't make sense any longer. So, instead of allowing the realignment for new circumstances to occur, we try to start changing the people around us to match our new energy. Trying eventually turns into forcing, because of our own fears of the unfamiliar. We want everyone to grow together. Move into new phases of life together. However, that's not how things work. We only hurt ourselves, not allowing these new changes to occur. We inhibit our own personal growth out of fear of losing people we no longer can relate to.

Some people don't want to grow:

This is hard truth to swallow. Some people are comfortable at being stagnate. They can't handle change very well, they're fearful to try something new. Let them be! Why limit yourself because of someone else's fears? This is where a lot of pain occurs for people, when their time comes to grow and evolve, they hold back to try to stay in what's familiar, they try to force relationships to work that are long overdue, they try to keep toxic friendships that are not genuine. So much pain occurs here, because we don't easily trust the gift life has to offer next. Don't lower your vibration, to make others happy. You can't change people, so don't hurt yourself trying. Move gracefully into your own development and accept your evolution!
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I choose to be happy for no reason! πŸ˜„ You have to learn how to not be controlled by your emotions. You can't be swayed left or right ever second by what others outside of you are saying and doing. You have to learn how to be in control of your inner emotions and gain inner stability.
Your emotions:

You might not realize this, but you choose how you want to feel. You choose to be sad, happy, excited, up, and or down. However, when people don't understand this, they become reactors. Reactors, tie their inner emotions to things, people, situations, and or circumstances. They wait till "this" happens to be happy. They can't be excited unless "that" happens. Have you noticed, that when you're just happy for no reason, people ask "what are you so happy about?" It's like we just can't be in that state, without having a reason. And for most people, if there is no reason to be happy, they are either sad or depressed waiting for something on the outside to shift their inner state. This explains why most people can easily become unhappy, because most of the time they are not in control of their emotions, and are unaware that they can decide what inner state they want to feel at any given moment.
Start choosing your inner state:

First step is deciding how you want to feel. If you don't decide, you'll be waiting for something on the outside to decide for you. When you make a clear cut decision, nothing will alter that state, if you keep your vision on the choice you made. You have the most effect on your reality when you feel good. Feeling good aligns you to the things you desire. The environment might look the same; but the mind looking at it has changed. Know that your inner reality, controls your outer reality.

Be free:
I know you might not have been taught this, but you're meant to feel good for no reason. You're meant to be happy for no reason. You're meant to smile for no reason. Let your self go and be free. You no longer have to wait to get these feelings, you longer have to expect others to give it to you to get these feelings. We have to stop tying ourselves down when we're meant to fly.
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It's okay to outgrow relationships, friendships, and situations that aren't beneficial to your growth. People change. Things change. There's nothing negative about evolving. It's okay to progress gracefully into the next chapter of your life. The more you resist the change, the more problems you experience. You can’t force people to grow. You can’t expect everyone to evolve with you. Don’t lose your energy trying to improve others, who don’t want to get better. It’s not your responsibility. Sometimes, the old connections expect you to remain the same, because it's comfortable. When you start to change, it challenges the dynamic of the connection. If you can't grow together, you will grow apart.
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