Sometimes people say really terrible, disgusting things to me. In the beginning it was more shocking- how could people say these things? What had I done to deserve such cruel words? But as time has gone on I’ve seen my perception change. Instead I now look at this commentary and I think “what has happened to this person to make them feel comfortable writing such terrible things publicly?” At first I didn’t think much of the change, but time had taught me that I’ve finally begun to grasp that someone else’s angry and destructive words aren’t a reflection of me, they’re the reflection of the person that uses them. It’s a hard lesson to learn, and sometimes even I forget. However, if someone’s tries to use their words to break you- remember they’ve already broken themselves by saying them. How you react, whether you feel weaker or lesser than because of them is your choice. Choose well.
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