I know it might seem from my social presence I live this charmed life- free from stress, work or struggles. This couldn't be farther from the truth. Im pretty much the long term driver of the struggle bus. Shit happens, but it's how you react to it that ultimately defines you. So today when due to some unforeseen circumstances I had to work yet again, I decided instead of going into a rage fest, cursing and destroying my computer with a hammer that doubles as a beer opener (which I really really wanted to do) to remain calm. See all that energy doesn't change the work ahead of me. I can't scream and complain the project to completion. It does, however, change how much energy I have to complete the task at hand. So I could get upset- heck I deserved to- or I could get shit done. And that's really how most situations net out. Sure- emotions are important. Like I am still mad. Hell, I'm pissed off. But channeling that anger into something that isn't productive is just a waste of time. So instead I will be here rage working my Sunday away putting that anger into getting this project off my plate.
Goals before woes.
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