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Georgina Lucy  Helping #brides have a #wedding build-up that is calm, happy and drama-free💐💍💕 ✨Personal Development Junkie ✨Ambassador for @psychologiesmagazine

D E C I S I O N S ✨A lot of people would describe themselves as indecisive (me included 🙋🏼‍♀️) but what makes us indecisive?
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So many other things can be a barrier to decision-making - lack of confidence, fear of failure, impatience, the urge to be a people-pleaser. It's something lots of #brides struggle with as well. Hours and hours can be spent on Pinterest before coming to a decision (something else I'll be covering in my bridal coaching workshops).
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Next time you're stuck making a decision dig deep at find out what the barrier is. This can be hard to do - doing some free writing may help or having a coaching session. Often being stuck in decision-making mode can be masking something else that's going on.

How gorgeous is this by @christy_ann_martine? I’ve spoken about surrendering before (mainly in the context of #ttc) and next time I get the urge to try to control situations I’m going to come back to this poem and imagine myself floating in the sea (one of my fave things to do) and letting the waves carry me along. There isn’t much that is truly within our control in this crazy world is there? This poem is a good reminder that sometimes we just have to let go. How do you go with the flow?

C O M P A R I S O N ✨ It's so easy for brides to fall into the comparison trap 😬 Comparing your wedding to others is only going to stunt your creativity and make you feel rubbish!
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When you notice your thoughts go into comparison overdrive, keep in mind all the things that make YOU unique and set YOU apart from everyone else. Then apply the same principle to your wedding. Yes, you can appreciate the amazingness of someone else's wedding, but don't let it make you feel rubbish about your own. Your wedding will be amazing too because it will have your own unique stamp on it. Let's also not forget that it's about marrying the love of your life and celebrating that 😍 Don't get swept up in the wedding drama, this is your time for fun and excitement!
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This is something I'll cover in my bridal coaching workshops (first one now confirmed for October - more info coming soon!) It's such an important message I want to share with brides as getting a hold on all this makes a massive difference to happiness levels.
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Double tap if you agree and share with a bride who may need to hear this 💜💜💜

Beautiful day for a beautiful couple @joannamariepri @rory_skeoch ✨ Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness 💜

Such a special time with the family too! Memories to treasure ☺️💕
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I do love a chalkboard at a wedding! 💜Isn't this one beautiful? I came across this via @weddingideas and it's from @thechalkspot if any brides are after something similar. There are loads of other gorgeous things on their site too so check them out. I got a bit carried away looking at it all only to realise, I'm not getting married!
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I'm off to a wedding today though and I CANNOT WAIT! 💜💐💍

I've been using this amazing superpower since I was a child and it's helped me tackle nerves, handle tricky situations AND also helped me to manifest some pretty brilliant things into my life. It's also an absolute must-use technique for all the brides (and grooms) so something I teach from my #BridalCoaching toolkit!
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My usual technique is to do the TV screen method that @theurigeller taught me when my mum took us to see him when I was little. Just imagine a giant TV screen and picture on it what you want to happen. Maybe it's how your ideal day will look, how you will ace that interview, how your future life will look. You can visualise anything you like and that's the fun of it!
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If you want some more tips and insight I did a #YouTube video on it last year. Link in bio 👆🏻What are you going to visualise? 💜

3 years ago today! When we got married I think we agreed that 25th July (our legal wedding day) was going to be the day we celebrate but who doesn't love a double celebration? We're being greedy and celebrating today too. Just by going out for a little din dins this evening 😄I may also force Steve to sit through the wedding video (again) and go through the album as I love it and @ashleypatonphotography did such a brilliant job of putting it together for us 👌🏼
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Looking forward to reminiscing this evening! Such a special day 💜🥂

Do you ever wish you had a magic wand to vanish your self-doubt? I know I do! Just think how unstoppable we'd all be ⚡️
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Sadly there is no magic wand but as this helpful reminder from @minna_so says we can rise above our doubts. But how do we do that?
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EVERYONE has doubts. They must do, surely? Well that's what I tell myself. I see incredible people doing amazing things and think to myself - if they can rise above the doubt then so can I! This is something I'm thinking a lot about lately and something I'm working hard at. Perhaps a new blog post idea? Double tap if you'd like to read that! 💜

Have you been following me for a while and still not too sure what a Bridal Coach is? It’s a question I get a lot! I’ve done a guest blog post for @theultimateweddinghowto telling you all you need to know! Link in bio 👆🏻 What I’m trying to get out there with all my bridal coaching inspo is quite unique I think and much more than advice about dresses and flowers (and I’m not too sure my advice on those things would be very on point if I’m honest 😂) Happy Sunday everyone! Hope it’s filled with lots of lovely things 💜
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Who knew #Birmingham could be so beautiful? 💜

If you watched my stories this week you’ll know that I went to an event on Wednesday night hosted by @thisisalicerose. It was the highlight of my week!

I came out of it feeling empowered and supported and with some new ideas to apply to my #ttc journey (that’s ’trying to conceive’ for anyone not down with the lingo)

One of the things Alice spoke about was about looking for beauty in life and on the way home from my sister’s the following day I did just that and fully appreciated the gorgeous pink sky as I was driving up the M1 back to Brum. Clearly I could not get my phone out to take a snap so I found beauty in today too so I could post something using Alice’s #ttclookforbeauty hashtag 💜 Thank you for a wonderful event Alice and for sharing such important messages which are helping so many women 🌟
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From childhood until way into my twenties I was a real worrier and I slip into those tendencies now too 🙄 Back in the day I used to worry about worrying 🙈 and would try to bat away the worries, rather than allowing them to have their say.

Something I do now is to allow the thoughts and worries to come, but within a self-contained time. So let’s say I’m ruminating on a decision I need to make. I allow myself some time to worry about this. The shower works well because there comes a time I need to get out the shower, unless I want to end up like a shrivelled up prune!

I can start to come up with some solutions as I’m giving the worries a chance to have their say which can be quite eye opening. I can then step out the shower and get on with my day.

What are your strategies for tackling worry? As I say I still slip into worry mode so let me know if you have any tips!

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