Dear women of the world,
Here are two things I no longer want to hear you say:
1.)“Let me ask my husband if he can babysit.” I’m sorry-is this man your baby daddy? Did he play a part in the making of your spawn? And are you also married to this man? If any or all of the above are true-your husband is not “babysitting” your children. He’s being a father. I don’t care if your man works seven days a week. When you need to accomplish something in your life that requires the help of your spouse to be with your kids, you do not need to ask if they will or not. And it’s certainly not babysitting. What the 16 year old girl in the neighborhood does for shopping money is babysitting. Whoever helped make the babies, gets to help raise the babies.
2.) “I would love to cut my hair but my husband won’t let me.” Now, I’m all for not doing crazy things to our appearance that would really be a turn off to your significant other, but last time I checked cutting your hair is up to you. Not your husband. He doesn’t have to like it. He doesn’t have to prefer it. YOU do. And I’m pretty sure when you really love someone, the length of your hair shouldn’t have much to do with it anymore. Do what makes you happy (within moral reason). Thanks for listening and goodnight. 🙏🏻✂️❤️ #ssdgm #loveyourself #dearwomen #chopitoff #lovefreebird