Getting your shit together requires a level of honesty you can't even imagine.
Ain't nothing easy about realizing YOU'RE the one that's been holding you back this whole time.
YOU'RE the one that's responsible for how you feel about yourself and your life.
That your lack of discipline, focus and control of your thoughts is the answer to some of those why not me questions you ask and that, even though you might feel mature and know some things, you still have to learn a lot in life.
That living in the past is poisonous and from no benefit and that, sometimes, what you think the problem is, is not the actual problem - you just focused on the wrong thing.
Never forget who you are and what you're capable of; how strong you are.
It's all about you.
All about what you feed your brain with - positive things or negative things?
Trying to look for solutions or more problems?
Moving on and getting better or grieving over something that might wasn't even there?
Being happy with yourself and focusing what you're good at or criticising yourself and putting yourself down?
Spending your time with people/things that make you happy or people/things that make you feel incomplete?
Everything that happens teaches you something about yourself.
And if you're lucky enough, you might learn something from even the worst situations.
Something that completely changes you, the way you view yourself and things you focus on (:
Something that makes you feel so good about yourself and your life that you wake up every morning with a smile on your face (:
Something that makes you 'glow' so much, you attract smiles, complements and good things everywhere you go (: