We need more love and encouragement.
There is always something to criticize. But there is always something to appreciate and salute as well. Yet that is rarely expressed as often. In general, it is more common to talk about the issues, the bad, the things to complain about🌫than it is to talk about the blessings🌟.
Take the fitness industry and athletes in it.
If we are shredded and lean we will hear that we are too low in bodyfat and that it is unhealthy, have eating disorders, or take steroids. If we gain weight we hear that we got out of shape, are unfit, a degradation. And to note about that is that a fit person is still as fit even if they gain fat during, say, an offseason. They nevertheless still have THE SAME muscles and are still the same fit athlete but only with a little extra protecting layer of fat covering it☝🏽.
The point is that we can not please all, and attention will often be directed to the faults of the person sharing their persona, their shape, their journey, instead of encouraging and lifting up the good attributes.
It is easy to criticize, create drama, be mean. Because we can always find errors, there is simply always SOMETHING to criticize. But remember, there is also always something to compliment, to salute, to appreciate. So lets do that instead✨