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-Ratri-  Mostly posting about my writings #mengajakmerenung Brand Ambassador Alter Age Clinic

(When my introvert side calls)

1. in the middle of the crowd
2. when I'm alone

Candidly captured by yayang @rizkiameliazawardi22

Dear the second youngest of us, congratulations for your upcoming next chapter of life.
We are so proud of you, that you finally can found and chose the right one after a long long walk😹😽 May Allah grant you Sakinah, Mawaddah, Warahmah. Sending much loves and prayers for you.

We love you, nonop❤️🤗 So... who's next?!

Here, I wanna tell you my favorite story. It's not a bedtime story that I'll just share to my children later on, this is a lifetime lesson.
Story about The Prophet Musa Alaihissalam in front of the red sea.

Allah shows us in this story, He compares and contrast the reaction of different people to the same exact external event or obstacle.

When Musa Alaihissalam was going to escape Firaun, there's Firaun's colony behind. Musa and his people were stuck between the red sea and super power army behind them.

When the two groups we're seeing each other, the people of Musa Alaihissalam said, "Indeed, we will be over taken" QS As-Syuara:61
And that's a very natural reaction to being stuck in front of the red sea with the super power army behind you.
But I wanna tell you something amazing. That the reaction of Muda Alaihissalam in that exact same situation, His Bashira (heart) is focus on something else.
He said, "No way. Indeed Allah is with me and He will guide me through this" QS As-Syuara:62

The reason why I love this story so much is because it's a sign from Allah that we gonna put into situation where we feel trapped, that we don't see a way out.
We gonna be put in the situation that all things look impossible.

But Musa Alaihissalam taught us something, he was able to see beyond that all.
Because his focus wasn't in the problem. His focus was on Allah.
And when Allah is with you, you don't have to worry.
And what strikes me about this story is he didn't even know how to get out of the situation and yet he didn't worry even he didn't know how.

It's easy for us to say, "I got problems but I know how to handle it because I got plan A, B,... Z."
But when we don't have any idea how it's gonna happen but you still put your trust in Allah and that's tawakkul.

Than you will say, what about doing our part?
And the reality is what so beautiful about this story was that although obviously Allah Is gonna safe him, Allah still asked Musa Alaihissalam to take action. He asked him to do something, to take his stick and hit the sea.

We are still asked to take an action because Tawakkul and action aren't separate.
We work and at the same time we put our trust in Allah.

Mudah,
sangat mudah bagiku untuk menunjuk kekurangan orang lain, sedangkan aku tak ingin orang lain tahu kekuranganku.

Mudah,
sangat mudah untukku membicarakan keburukan orang lain, sedangkan aku begitu lalai dalam memperbaiki diriku.

Mudah,
betapa mudahnya mencari-cari aib orang lain, sehinggaku lupa begitu banyak aib dalam diriku yang Allah tutupi.

Ah,
mungkin aku melakukannya karena itulah hal yang mudah dilakukan.
Sedangkan yang sulit adalah bermuhasabah, memperbaiki diri, dan menjaga hati dan lisan untuk tidak menyakiti.
Karena yang sulit adalah mengingatkan dalam kata-kata baik sedangkan yang lebih mudah adalah menghakimi orang lain atas kesalahan yang mungkin ku lakukan dikemudian hari.

Allah, maaf aku lalai.
Gemar sekali menghakimi orang lain sedangkan aku tak punya cukup ilmu untuk memberi nilai.
Maaf aku sombong,
merasa diri sudah benar dan tak ingin disalahkan, padahal makhlukmu yang pertama kali melakukannya adalah Syaitan.

Wahai hati yang lalai,
lihatlah kekurangan diri sebelum engkau menunjuk orang lain dengan jarimu yang tak lebih suci.
Wahai diri yang sombong,
tak perlu kau mencari letak salah orang lain karena hal itu dapat kau temukan dalam dirimu sendiri.

#mengajakmerenung
#indymorningthoughts

#suaramillenial
Dinginkan kepala, sejukkan hati
Kemarahan takkan mengubah apa-apa melainkan ibarat menyiramkan bensin pada api
Bukan malah memadamkan, namun membuatnya semakin membara

Yang tak mengerti semestinya dirangkul dan diajak mencari arti
Sebab kenikmatan menuntut ilmu terlalu besar untuk dinikmati sendiri

Anaknya cengeng, memang.

Assalamualaikum selamat pagi teman-temanku yang baik!

Indy minta tolong dibantu memilih cover buku keduaku #GoalsGeneration ya

Coba bayangin aja kira-kira kalau kalian ke toko buku terus ngelihat sampul buku mana yang paling menarik? Yang sesuai dengan judul,
atau bolehlah dilihat dari kepribadian indy yang kalian nilai dari media sosial,
atau mana saja yang kalian anggap bagus. (I kno, chu chu semua kaaan)
What number and why?
Please leave your comments below.#

Warm regards,
cyndi🌸

My rainbow after the Rain --- Yap, she is. She has all of those beautiful colors of a rainbow in herself and that colors make everyone wants to make a friend with her.
She looks cold outside but she shares the most warm hugs.

Our relationship has always been solid. We fought (like any sisters did) but my memories are filled with giggles and hugs and secrets. she’s always been my favorite person.

Growing up with her as a little sister, she really helped paved the way for me in school. “Oh, are you Ayu's sister?” “Yes.” Well, that pretty much meant that no one can really mess with me. Yap, she always stood up for me whenever I needed help or she thought I need. Nevertheless somet people still questioned whether or no we were truly related.

Mba, you achieved so much things more than I do. You got love, a sincere ones- around you, and you become sunshine around them.
What it does mean? Everyone needs you.

If you ever one day wondering "am I good enough?"
You need to know, that you are not just good. You are GREAT. As a sister, a child, a friend, and surely a mother.

Gendis must be so proud of having you as her guardian.
You deserve all of the best things in this life.
I'll always be trying to give you some.

I love you, happy turning 26, my rainbow.

Ps:
Don't cry.

Let's create happiness, he said.

I already did, she replied.

You are.

Ah, sudahkah ku katakan betapa aku menyukai senja?
#malamberpuisi

Berjanjilah untuk tidak menjanjikanku apa-apa. Cukuplah genggam tanganku saat hatiku menduka, lalu hibur aku dengan senyum sederhanamu yang bersahaja. Begitu saja, hingga raga kita menua.
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