🗣Social media can be a beautiful thing.
Most things that are beautiful also come with pain.
I was cyber bullied on a women’s Facebook Group last week that’s about “women getting real” Someone sent me the screen shots written about me and let me tell you. They weren’t 👹 pretty.
When you choose to go out there in real life or behind a screen to covet, slander & trash someone’s name.
You can never ever take it back.
Once it’s out there it’s out there.
Embarrassing someone in public is unforgivable.
If following someone on social media triggers responses within you that don’t feel good click UNFOLLOW #Bye Look away. Know yourself. Don’t keep watching. If following someone makes you feel insignificant, insufficient, insecure, ungrateful of your life, jealous, hateful, or just not good feelz inside. Delete.
If it hurts you to see them on vacation, having children, getting married, receiving a gift, being single, smiling, succeeding, or living their life AS THEY SHOW IT.
I choose to keep my page generally positive, loving, inspirational without negative rants.
Ladies, Know that heartache and pain DOESN’T discriminate.
I have my fair share. We all do.
No one got off free in life.
Instagram is edited real life.
People only show you the highlights.
Instagram is NOT pay per view.
You don’t pay to watch, it’s a FREE service you are willingly watching.
Your own free will.
You are allowing your eyes see it and your heart feel it.
If you don’t protect yourself who will ?
If it triggers you. Let it go.
You owe that you yourself.
Delete the friend on FB, leave the group and unfollow on Instagram. Clean up your life so you feel better inside. Because only you, can take care of you.
I’m human and I so badly wanted to share all those screen shots on my instagram. Bite back. But then I’m no better. The cycle of slander at one point has to stop. I took the high road, while not easy it was the right thing. NO it was NOT easy for me to do that. Taking the moral high road ain’t easy.
Social media platforms are great for expressing ourselves and sharing, but you need to be careful what you take away from it. Xox ❤️