A lot of people will SAY they want relationships, to get in shape, to sober up, to stop engaging in drama, to live a better lifestyle etc but will actually DO very little. It’s way easier to stay in your comfort zone than it is to push yourself outside of it and experience real growth and true living. So if someone is saying a lot and doing little or even worse, doing the opposite, just leave them to it. You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves and if they really want whatever it is more than anything else they’ll figure it out. We all get the same 24hrs. Always keep pushing yourself in the right direction and keep the people who are on the same page with you. I’ve experienced some of my best life highs just being outside, training, playing with my kids, racing, being around people I love, and listening to music. It’s safe to say I would’ve missed out on a lot of those if I wasn’t disciplined in my day to day choices so it’s worth putting in the work, you will reap the rewards. Shallow living always leaves you missing those deeper connections and feeling empty. It’s better to know one person inside and out than a hundred on a superficial level. Better to put in the work in everything you love and experience the deep contentment of it than have a hundred empty nights out drinking, binging etc. If you’re dealing with people who haven’t grasped that yet send them love but keep your distance. Whoever you stay around shapes your life so you want to choose those people wisely.