Don't judge or condemn anyone because you do not understand their struggles. If you can't help, at least you can counsel or pray for or with them. Tomorrow they might be the one to help or counsel you or others 'in case of incasity'. I have seen on Facebook some people who were the baddest those days when we were young, caught in stealing and doing 'runs' now online preachers and doing exploits. It's only God that can judge. I believe change is possible. I was once a chief sinner but I see my sins reducing from 100% to 50% to 25% and I'm hopeful someday it will be 0% before Jesus Christ comes. Yes, He's alive and coming back again. Maybe soon!
My greatest desire today is providing jobs for especially young girls and accomodation for them. At least to help reduce their struggles and aid in launching them out of desperation, fear and hopelessness. With these, people may plunder their bodies, only for a while but it would be difficult to confuse their minds anymore because they would be able to choose for themselves.
Alcohol, drugs and prostitution or cheating, greediness and selfishness may reduce the pains only for a short while but in the long run, the consequences are too much - mediocrity, infertility, childlessness, single motherhood or fatherhood, insanity, immorality and hell fire.