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Brittany Mychael Ferenc 💀🖤  💙A man stole my heart; he calls me 'Mama' 🌎Irish/Hungarian✋🏼Michigangster 💪🏼NPC Figure✨RestlessSoul 💀Lygophilia✍🏼Writer💫Empath 🧠Mental Health Advocate

I have evolved from saying “f*ck this” to myself, multiple times a day, to now saying “focus solely on what you can control, let go of the rest”...multiple times a day.
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(Ok, ok...there may be a few slip ups here and there but honestly - it should go without saying - intentionally hurtful people, running out of chocolate in the house, falling victim to the terrifying state of “hangry”, and road rage do not count! #Obviously) 😬🤷🏻‍♀️
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I think I’m growing, you guys!! 💁🏻‍♀️😂✊🏼
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#Latergram #Evolve #BabySteps #IssaVibe #CelebrateTheLittleThings #Change #Growth #EmbraceIt #ClassAct #KeepinItReal #SweetAndSavage #IfYouHaveToLetItAllGo #AtLeastKeepTheSenseOfHumor

You never have to search. The blessings in your life are always right in front of you.
🍎☺️ #Family

After me, hell will be easy. 🕯
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#YoureWelcome #AboutLastNight #TheDevilisAWoman #Latergram

⚠️This is your warning. This post is not part of the social media “highlight reel”. This is raw and dark but the truth is rarely beautiful. I’m going to lay myself bare for all to see in the name of all those out there who also hide their truths in fear of the stigmas and judgment placed upon you. ⚠️
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I hear the word strong a lot. Probably one of the most common things people say to me is in regards to my “strength”. I show strength in many ways. I have always been a fighter. I am regularly approached with pleas and praises from others saying they “wish they could be as strong as me”, asking me how I do it, how I get through all these things, how I push forward. They eagerly look at me with admiration hoping that I spew out some detailed specific answer that will get them to the strong place they think I live everyday.
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I have spent extensive hours educating myself and researching on various mental health conditions and coping mechanisms also with the help of professionals - anything I could get my hands on. I just want to understand. I council many women discreetly, (a few men too!), because I just want to help in any way I can. IMPORTANT SIDE NOTE: I do this for free and as a “friend”. I do not pretend to be a therapist, I do not discuss prescriptions or self-medication, and I always recommend seeking a licensed therapist to each and every person that reaches out to me. I simply discuss ways that I have found and researched to help get through every day life. I’ve been there. I am there. I understand. I give blunt honesty but also coping solutions for their own trial and error and most importantly, validation. I personally know the immense power of merely sitting in front of someone who has walked in your shoes.
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But here is the real blunt honesty. I’m not stronger than them. Nor you. Nor the person who courageously checked themselves into a mental rehab facility in hopes of safety and change despite the stigmas. Even the person who has yet to accept they have mental health issues at all and continue to destroy everything in their path, I am still not stronger. I AM YOU.
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CONTINUED IN COMMENTS 👇🏼

You guys can stop sending me these...
Just kidding, I love that you’re thinking of me, regardless. 😂🖤🤷🏻‍♀️
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#IfTheShoeFits #MyFriendsThinkTheyKnowMe #TheCaptain @sgrstk

Sophomore year of high school, “sneaking” out of class through the common area to skip school (🙈🤷🏻‍♀️) when a friend and I stumbled across a group of teachers huddled around a small tv. My heart sank. We were caught. I braced myself for the consequences I was sure were coming but to my utter confusion, none of them even looked up at us. As I focused on their body language and facial expressions, I knew then something was terribly wrong. We stepped closer to catch a glimpse of the TV screen and it took less than 30 seconds for me to understand the sheer terror on their faces. None of the teachers blinked an eye as my friend and I sat and joined them. It was right then we watched the second plane hit. Immediately after, all students were called out of their classrooms to be notified of the situation and allowed to watch the events themselves. After learning a staff member had immediate family in the towers we were all dismissed to go home. I remember like it was yesterday. 🇺🇸💔 >>SWIPE<<
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#NeverForget #WhereWereYou #IRememberWhen #IRememberWhere #91101

If you truly love me, you will never feed me #tequila...unless you’re my wife. 🤦🏻‍♀️😘
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#SpousalAbuse #ButSheLovesMe #WifeLife #20YearsStrong #iLoveGingers #GrapeAndWineFestival #AddTequilaSubtractTheWine #Latergram

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