Nobody gives themselves a pep talk more than a woman tryna decide if she should have sex with someone for the first time and a woman trying to parallel park . Watching it is actually pretty sad and pathetic , she will turn the music all the way down and still hear chants of "Lose Yourself " Eminem in her head " Her palms are sweaty , knees weak , arms are heavy " . She then leans forward breast ( or lack there of ) touching the steering wheel as she clutches it firmly with two hands trying to gauge the situation , another song chimes in her head making her nervous about going for it " it's too big , It's too wide , it won't fit " she hears her imaginary aunt /sister sing , at this point she's triggered and she hasn't even put the car in reverse , people are walking by , there's someone behind her becoming agitated, she sees hands being thrown up in her review mirror , she puts the car in reverse and cuts the wheel but she cut too much , she hits the curb and tries to readjust but she over corrects and hits the city mailbox this time , she loses it ! It's over! She's gone ...... - Based on a true Story - This is long and you still read it .