So here goes nothing... Many have been reaching out to me in concern about my fathers well being after my husband @brandon__curry made a post about me and mentioned him being in the ICU. I am not one to post too much about my personal life here on social media, because I believe I am more of a private person. When I grieve, I typically grieve in silence. If I am enduring hardship, I don't announce it...that's just me. But I wanted to answer everyone asking about my dads well being because I don't have the energy or emotional capacity to go back and forth and explain it to everyone who is kindly asking and showing concern, so I do apologize if I haven't responded because although I am strong on the outside, I am still a woman and go through every emotion imaginable.
For almost 2 weeks my father has been in a coma...he has a serious case of pneumonia and cannot breathe on his own...Doctors have hoped that he would have gotten better by now with antibiotics but his condition has only progressed and he now has sepsis. His liver is barely hanging on...his heart is failing, his bone marrow isn't producing red blood cells like it should and his platelets are so low that they said that he is very likely to have what they call a spontaneous bleed. He is given anywhere from 3-5 pints of blood every couple of days, he is also diabetic and his blood sugar continues to rise even in a coma state. So for those of you kindly asking how he's doing, well-truth be told he isn't doing very well at all. He also signed a no resuscitation form when he was admitted to the hospital so if he goes, there will be no attempt to save him as he wished to be allowed to die naturally.
This is a very difficult time for my family and I, times like these are never easy for anyone. I haven't been able to fly back home in Hawaii where I am from to see him yet because I am the only one here at the moment since my husband is in Kuwait and we have 4 children that I look after. Thankfully timing is working out now and my dear friend @tacooni will be able to help me so that I can go to see him... Thank you all for the love and support. ❤️🙏🏼