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Barbara Jeanne  Relationship counselor. Writer for Cosmo, Seventeen & several magazines. Counsel the mentally & physically disabled. Model & Fitness Director, PT asst

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I heard in a movie once "He's chasing her, your chasing him, but who's chasing you". When we were young on the playground we would play tag. When someone chased us our natural instinct was to run away. We are programmed to do this. But as we grow older we still seem to chase, men especially like the hunt. But at what point do we stop running? The only answer that seems rational is when we want to be caught. Some relationships move faster, some slower. But if you are chasing, and chasing, and the person your chasing is running away. You need to stop! You're wasting your precious time and energy into someone that doesn't want to be caught by you. Sometimes by anyone. So move on and find that person who wants to be caught by you. That's a good start for a healthy relationship. And keep your mind open, you might find love where and when you least expect it! Love Barbara Jeanne ♡

Getting over pneumonia, but I want to thank you for all of your sweet messages. You're all dear to me & I'm humbly grateful. Valentines is coming & it's a great time to realize, we need to stop being so harsh on the people we are with. We move on from one to another as fast as we change underwear. We got to stop & see the good. Remember if you give half ass you'll never truly know, because you get what you give! Hugs & Love, Barbara Jeanne xo

You must feel comfortable with yourself to be comfortable in a relationship. You must love yourself to love another and to have a healthy relationship. When you begin a relationship or are in a relationship it needs to stay healthy or eventually bitterness will set in. Which is hard to stop once hurtful words are said, and hurtful acts are done. The worst thing is to think things are greener on the other side. How wrong is that statement. But what's worse is when you hop over and you find it sucks and many times you can't go back. Love, Barbara Jeanne xx

We love with all speculations. How can we succeed, when we are asking for something that's not possible! As a relationship goes on we start to pick it apart. Why? To break it apart? Stop looking at the flaws of people we love & look at the good. You're not flawless, remember that, so cut that s**t out! Maybe then we can actually find a relationship. Love, Barbara Jeanne xx

I'm back! Thank you for those who stayed with me for my long absence. I'm grateful♡ It's a New Year, let's leave our unwanted baggage behind. Let's travel lightly so that we can see our blessings looking forward. Love, Barbara Jeanne

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JUST A THOUGHT!

Thank u to all that left many sweet messages, I do try to answer, but if I didn't please know I take notice. U all have a place n my heart even if it's this place we call IG. As we rock in2 the new year, dress yourself up n your love. Learn to truly love yourself, know your value, that u r absolutely priceless!

LOVE YOUR PARTNER LIKE YOU DID WHEN YOU FELL IN LOVE & THEY WILL BE YOUR FOREVER.

Some people say that they forgive but they don't forget. Yes you can do this so it doesn't happen again. But God forgives, Period! Why is there a stipulation with our forgiveness?

THERE ARE MILLIONS OF PEOPLE WHO YOU CAN BE WITH, BUT THE RIGHT ONE IS A NEEDLE IN A HAY STACK. WHEN YOU FIND THAT PERSON THAT YOU CAN FEEL YOURSELF & WANT TO COME HOME TO. HOLD THEM DEARLY, BECAUSE THAT'S A BIG GIFT, A BLESSING, HUGE! Barbara Jeanne xo

THIS IS ADVICE I GAVE A CLOSE GUY FRIEND WHO SAID HE'S STUBBORN. WE DON'T NEED TO WIN. A RELATIONSHIP ISN'T A GAME OF WHO'S RIGHT OR WRONG. IF YOU PLAY THIS GAME, EVENTUALLY YOU'LL LOSE, THE GAME & THE PERSON, JUST A THOUGHT! BARBARA JEANNE ♡

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