Happy Valentines everyone! OK, yes, I know, for many, this may not be a "happy" day, and perhaps even hate the day. sure, I actually agree that it is a bit of a hallmark day so to speak - a flurry of spending to show the significant other that you "are in fact in love". For me, this will be my first valentines without a valentines for over 18 years. The last few years seemed to be a "forced event", so oddly enough, today does not seem to bother me at all, in fact I'm happy. I get to spend time with my daughter and son, so a father cannot ask for more :). No matter where you are - in love as a couple, or perhaps you have never even tasted "true love" and are waiting - take today for where you are in your life, and not as what "could" or "should" be.