I used to think relationships were all about butterflies, mystery, and constant fireworks. I used to think relationships were supposed to make me happy. A few years ago I felt like my relationships were rushed, pushed, or attractive. I would have given you shitty advice like date the dude that makes you 'feel' the best. Go with the man that plays hard to get. Go with the man that is mysterious.
Well, it's very easy to say Rob is none of those things. With Rob I've learned love is steady, safe and consistent. Rob taught me the importance of being bestfriends with your lover. My love with him developed slow and intentionally. I didn't fall in love with Rob like my past relationships. I GREW in love with him. Rob is a safe place where I can make mistakes and Learn. My advice to you now is to pick the dude who shows up early to a date. Pick the dude that you question is too tender. Pick the guy with a good heart not just a nice wallet. Pick the man who wants to persue you. Choose the man that actively chooses you!!