So Xhosa people have really hit the nail on the head this time... the ceremony is called "Amabhaso" which I gather means "gift giving" basically the women in the community, church and family come together and present the bride-to-be with presents for her new home. I'm not talking just ur spoons and plates but proper things like a washing machine, fridge, microwave, blender, dishwasher just to name a few, all so that when you get married your only concern will be taking care of your man... I love it!! Ubuntu at its best, it's nice to see a wedding being a community affair and not a blood sucking vulture on two unsuspecting love birds lol
Long story short the theme of my bridal shower will be "amabhaso"
Congratulations my awesome friend 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🔥💃🏾🔥awusemhle😍😍😍 (The last pic is how you smile after amabhaso)