A few months ago I decided that I needed to look out for myself, and stop exhausting myself taking care of my friends that never return the favor. It was really painful to distance myself from people I cared about in hopes of being able to now focus on myself. I thought that if I could take care of myself the way I take care of my friends, then I could be happy. But I'm learning now that I'm MOST happy, when I allow myself to love unconditionally. It can be hurtful, and tiring at times, but who better to do it than me? I'm so lucky to be able to care, feel, and love as deeply as I do. So watch out all my party people, momma's back. And she’s comin for you with the hugs and kisses.