I am insanely grateful and blessed to find someone I can be myself with & we both take the time to communicate and look out for each other. It's refreshing to be happy. 🖤Sometimes we fall into a state of pessimism after being hurt and neglected and let down for so many years. When you're not enough... your partner needs to talk to other people, or they just stop doing the things that matter. Stop worrying, stop communicating, they don't tell you how they feel because "you should just know"... they let everything slip through the cracks due to laziness and being comfortable. A relationship requires effort and is constant hard work. Whether it's been a month or years: don't get comfortable... you can lose anyone at anytime, keep up the little things like checking in on your partner forever. The worst feelings are neglect or wondering if you matter anymore.