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Karishma Donde  👗 Socially conscious fashion + lifestyle blogger 🌸 Natural beauty and medicine enthusiast 🙌🏽 Empowering and Inspiring others post by post 📍LA

Nothing can be more annoying than someone calling you moody. But what does that mean? Moody is basically a reflection of not only our own energy levels and vibrations, but also the people that are around us that can affect our auras. It’s a self reflection of our own triggers for example: do you ever notice that you’re moodier with people that you have to have extra patience with? Or because you had to wake up early in the morning when you didn’t get to do your daily night or morning routine? Moodiness can effect our own self-awareness, inner-peace and our life flow which should pay attention to where these lie in our bodies and why. 🌸⠀
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Peace around us starts with first finding peace within ourselves. When we are aware of what’s happening inside, the impact that we can make is ten-fold.🙌🏽⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Someday mode: The mental loop in our heads that tells us we will do something, eventually. Sometimes, regarldess of all the motivational speakers we watch or the networking we do we can’t get out of this endless loop in our head. What is it that is stopping us? We tell ourselves that it’s not our time yet but at times it’s also the lack of accountibility we have for ourselves. When we have all these distractions around us it’s easy to cave in and let our selves go & since there is no one/thing that is holdig our hands to the fire to get it done, it’s easy to slip into the slumber of everything else. Although the mind plays tricks and we are unable to get out of that state of mind, the soul will ensure that something happens to get done for us. It comes in many forms: a string of bad events that we can’t see through at the time or making a new connection who takes us under their wing. 🙏🏽⠀
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It only takes that one thing to shake us out of someday mode and when we finally get out of it, the miracles we are able to conjure up for ourslves are nothing short of magic!🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Patience is to be calm no matter what happens, constantly take action to turn it to positive growth opportunities by trying new things, ideating/coming up with new ideas, testing, taking chances and have faith to believe that it will all work out in the end while you are waiting. 🙌🏽⠀
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Our ambitions is what makes them powerful and the faith that it will work through all of our tribulations is what brings us growth 🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Sometimes we tell ourselves that we are able to forgive someone we tell ourselves that we need from the person like an apology or coversation. We say, it’s closure and that we will be able to move on in peace. In actuality, this block is a reflection of self. we don’t really need anything but instead to need to unblock our minds and let go of the anger that we have inside. At times, we obsess and ask all the people around us for advice, but none of that matters because all the answers to help us move forward and escalate ourselves resides within us. 🙌🏽⠀
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Learning that holding on to our anger does more harm, and holding on to expectations of other people is not the answer we evolve ourselves and learn how to embrace life blocks instead of getting held back by them. 🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

When we find a way to let go if the things that we can’t change, we taste our first drop of freedom. It becomes addicting to continue down a journey of finding what makes us feel more like ourselves because we learn the more we search, the more free we feel. Freedom is actually a complicated feeling because what our soul wants isn’t necessarily what our minds want. For example, your mind could tell you that freedom to you is sitting on a beach drinking margs all day but in reality your soul’s freedom is helping people in villages find water and being busy all day long. However, without learning how to let go first we will never connect and trust the light within that guides us to our definition of ultimate freedom. 🙌🏽⠀
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It's when we disconnect that we learn to be, and learning to be is in esscense letting go of everything and floating down what was meant for you. 🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Unknown factors can be just as much beautiful as they can be scary. Fear is a facade for what is really going on inside of ourselves and sometimes it debilitates us. Why are we so doubtful of ourselves and so quick to go to think of the wrongs first? Maybe our goals and dreams are too big and we wonder, “if I risk it all, will I lose it all too?” However if we are able to think of each day as a step towards that big picture, we find that risks are minimized and unknown factors start to become known. We slowly learn to trust our unique talents and start seeing the beauty in what was strange to us at one time. 🙌🏽⠀
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At the end, we learn that life is all about duality. For every negative thought there is a positive expression and eventually learn to laugh at ourselves for ever being doubtful in the first place. 🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Do you notice that sometimes you push back against your life flow? At times the things that we envision for ourselves is not necessarily what life has in store for us. We continue to knock and knock and nothing opens. Why do we have these dreams if it’s not something that is meant to be? Likely it’s not our time but a different way that we will eventually end up there. Sometimes there are other paths that we need to experience before we are truly ready to live our wildest dreams, but it’s not the path that is our greatest downfall it’s trusting the path. ✨⠀
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However, if we are able to float and not fight our path (no matter how fast or slow), we are able to flourish in the most unexpected ways! 🌸⠀
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📷: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Grow by doing, not by standing still. 🌸
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One of the most nerve racking things in life is when you are about to do something new & have never done it before. Even though you know somewhere inside that it’s meant for you, it’s a little scary so you avoid and avoid until one day all the energies line up and push you to just do it. It’s kind of like you’ve graduated from high school and are off to college with no parents or guardrails around you and you have no choice but to learn to be independent. Once you’re there it feels like flying, why were you scared in the first place? If we never take chances, we never learn to trust ourselves! 🙏🏽⠀
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At one time it felt scary but then it becomes life-changing and magical ✨⠀
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📷 : @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

Easy way to get creative: find problems 💡⠀
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Since each of us experience and witness things differently we are able to find niche problems that probably no one else has experienced. It’s a great way to get our minds thinking of finding solutions and building value at the same time—because you are probably not the only one going through these problems. Although, some problems are seen as niche & miniscule, studies show that it’s those types of solutions are actually ones that do the best. When you build value, you build loyalty & communities. It’s how the transformation happened from: chasing the cash to wanting to help people expand themselves.🌸⠀
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It’s inspiring to know that even the smallest ideas can have the biggest impacts if we just get a little creative!🙌🏽

Once we learn that duality that it’s like a prism: negative is the reflection of positive and vice versa. Although when we first think of something immediately we look at the worst that can happen we must also realize that once it does happen that we have to embrace it. Though the negative may be hard to walk out of, the one thing that can set our minds right and get us stepping in the right direction is: gratitude. It’s why we must express it every morning when we wake up and the first thing before bed, because we never know what is going to come our way during the day—but if we can always internally reflect express our gratitude, get out the negative and look at the reflection on the other side, we realize that not everything is as bad as our mind is making it out to be. 🌸⠀
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Shifting our mind effects our energy, and helps us get on the path that was meant for us!🙌🏽⠀
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📸: @shotbyonye
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On the journey to get to know ourselves better, the hardest part is facing our trigger points. Sometimes our trigger points have been pushed down so deep that we forgot they existed.. until something all of a sudden happens and it blindsides us and takes us back years. Re-living every painful moment of that point in time. When we analyze why we pushed them down so far we realize that it's because we don't think that we have the courage to face the outcome. However, there is only so long that something can stay down for so long and we realize that we can't really be content without actually facing this first and the little voice in our souls is stronger than ever for these triggers to be faced. It’s telling us that we do have the strength inside of us and the sooner we do it, the better we will feel. 🌸⠀
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But we do have the courage and when we can face it, is when we exponentially grow and love ourselves more. 🙌🏽⠀
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📸: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

The fear of death doesn’t just lie in the physical realm, but also within ourselves. Sometimes we try, get attached to something and are relentless, but no matter what we do nothing seems to flow the way it’s supposed to. When we lose it, it feels like we lost a large part of who we are. At the time, it might feel horrible but in the end we find ourselves (finally internally reflecting), build confidence, self-awareness and are able to build new paths for ourselves. We learn how to detach from just one outcome and are more open minded to try many new things and many new outcomes. They say the first love is the deepest-- and it is-- however that unforgettable heart-breaking first moment will teach you a life lesson that you'll never forget. The most inspiring lesson you taught yourself was: never surrender. 🙌🏽⠀
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That growth that you go through is nothing short of a beautiful miracle!🌸⠀
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📸: @shotbyonye
Styled by: @styleby_ssw

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