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Queen Of 10,000 Moons. β˜₯  | Photographer. Videographer. Muse. Poet. Yogi. Pan-Africanist. Goddess. Angoleira. For the progression of my people. FOR THE LOVE OF THE BLACK MAN


Freestyle to 'Pretty Little Birds - SZA' Pt. 2 🌻

Freestyle to 'Pretty Little Birds - SZA' Pt. 1 🌻

This independent woman thing is out of control. Have what? A child? You can't have a child without a man. A stable home, family? You can't do that on your own sis. Maybe you can because so many of our women have. But to risk instability because of your or someone else's ego is insane. You'd rather imbed psychological stress on yourself and your family because you don't want a man to think he has any power over anything you accomplished... what's so bad about having order and balance if it wasn't for him? You wouldn't even exist if it wasn't for your father. A lot of our relationships are failing because of ego. "I can do bad all by myself." "I don't need a man"... ugh
And believe me I understand. I am the all powerful independent woman grand hustler myself, but relationships are put at risk when you're so independent that you can't allow a man to do anything for you. It emasculates him, if you can do everything for yourself, he feels that what do you need him for? β€’
...My point is, be the best independent woman you can be. Become whole. Learn how to survive. How to hustle. Be a teacher, lover, mother and healer, first. Then, find a male that is your balance. And see what you can create. Then you can proudly share with the world how successful you are and how proud you are to have a man that you couldn't do any of your struggles without of. Stop allowing ego to break up our homes. And sis, if you know he has an ego, help him ease it, or learn to love it. Teach him about balance - and stop complaining about our men. Got everything in the world to say but doing nothing to progress his position. If you think he ain't shit, do something about it! Either teach him or leave him, he'll learn either way.
Remember, woman, you are the leader of the spiritual, and man is the leader of the physical. If you cannot relay the message of balance, wholeness, and order as pronounced by the Creator to your man, expect chaos in the physical. ✨ β€’

There's been so much that's caused me pain. Which is still a reward because it's forced me to find peace. There's nothing I find more rewarding than making a mistake and learning from it. I'm learning to hold myself accountable. Staying authentic. Keeping my heart and eye open ready for manifestation. Overstanding that everything takes time, but that's what we work for. I am just finding Africana Womanism, via my king, but discovering that I've had it within me all of this time. Never been comfortable with feminism, so I'm glad the concept exists and I can take it as my truth. But I'm bringing you more information soon, so stay tuned.β€οΈπŸ’šπŸ–€

I ain't racist, but if we ain't talkin black then what we talkin bout. I try not to speak on things that have nothing to do with me. β€οΈπŸ–€πŸ’š

I'm building my empire, just wait and see.πŸ‘‘

I am aware of my power.
Aries Sun. Taurus Moon. Sagittarius Rising.
I am a strong woman.
I do not desire to have conversations that are not stimulating, a learning experience, or being intimate, sharing your thoughts or mine in hopes of gaining some type of healing. I am not one to rub egos just because that may feed you. I do enjoy sharing love when it feels natural, which it always is. And I enjoy watching people do their thang. I love when people are illuminating naturally. I love dancing. I love singing. I love doing yoga with my girls, capoeira de Angola with my guys, dancing, and sharing moments of epiphany. I become awkward during small talk. I don't care for it. I want to get to know you more, and for you to get to know me. I am sensitive, but find strength in my vulnerability. If we're not laughing something's wrong. For I love to play and bask in my childlike nature. But I feel so full, my heart open, and I'm feeling tingly when I think about this series that's waiting to manifest with all of the beautiful women who have offered their energy. I'm feeling alive. Creative. Grateful for the energy exchange from @curlyheadedblackboy yesterday, and @bycalvind for putting me on to two more weddings in October. He also shot this at a previous wedding. But I'm talking too much now, but long story short, I'm back. And it feels good.

I'll just leave this here, my gawd😍😭

Happy birthday sugar pie honey bun😍😘. @sothrsthisgirl 🍰🎁
Make sure y'all go check out her jewelry line too😜

We're not trying to put on a false reality. We are building, creating, and learning. Black love isn't some trend that we're trying to live up to. We overstand that there's work to be done, and future generations that need to prosper. Empires to rise. King & Queen, you and me.β€οΈπŸ–€πŸ’š
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