“You can be a good person with a kind heart and still say no.” Drawing a line in the sand when it comes to loyalty and deserved accepted behaviour can be difficult.
Old friends, long time relationships... ect may see you differently than you see yourself now, as you change and see new found value in yourself.
If you feel your expectations of: respect, consideration, or even your feelings are being looked past, it’s ok to establish that you are entitled to more, or better.
It is ok to recognize, declare and hold firm on the fact that although the old you may have “accepted less” (less respect/ less appreciation/ less gratitude) than you deserved; you are not obligated by loyalty, weight or a lesser value than another, to continue to be mistreated or under appreciated.
Address your concerns! If you feel you have grown and another person is growing in a different direction, or not at all, you don’t owe anyone anything to stay if it limits or lessens your growth.
Some relationships are meant for realization and not for a life time. Don’t feel guilty, feel grateful for perspective!
Grow into the positive person you need to be! Don’t focus on what’s behind you; The right people will be at your side!
Be proud of yourself, be proud of your progress and all of your worth. True friends, family and supporters EMPOWER ONE ANOTHER!
Don’t be afraid to embrace and embark on the behaviour you feel and KNOW you deserve.
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