connietokes Okay, so something is weighing heavy on my mind and I am trying to get some feedback.
Yesterday at the beach, there were 3 girls hanging out having a good time. I was listening to them talk about "boys" and "One Direction" and things normal 14 year olds talk about. Then, one of them pulled out a camera, and the other two started rolling around posing in the sand and water as if she was in sports illustrated.
I guess I don't even know what I'm trying to say and the words I want to use may sound so judgemental, but know that my heart is disgusted and hurts. Opinions?
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  •   ladybrains Oh boy. I'm going to not comment towards a person who pissed me off. And make an in general statement: when I was younger and growing into myself.. I wanted to show cleavage all the time.. Now that I'm a parent I'm like what the hell when I look back o myself.. Then I go out in public and see these girls trying to be grown women. Heck I'm 23 and Im not even sure I'm a grown woman. And Im sorry this may especially offend the person that annoyed me that just sounds like some over the top attempt at a feministic remark (I say attempt because o actually enjoy feminism.. Not ignorance and gibberish) "blame the men". No blame the parent for letting their 12 year old dress like she's a stripper. It isn't just old men looking at these girls its boys their age and then them experiencing something they know nothing about other than what their friends said.. And god forbid catching something or ending up with a child they aren't ready for. And that in no way is to be against anyone who has a baby earlier especially if you're a good parent... I respect you. But damn the world is getting more and more gross. And some may say i overprotect my little boy.. But I can only hope he communicates with me and that I can enstill that he'd be honest with me about his life in general and what he experiences so I can educate him. And no I'm not saying he parents are to blame for abolsutely everything hut I feel as though there's a lot parents could be doing precautionary but as stated by Connie may be too caught up in their own social media and technology anyways. I'm trying to raise a gentleman please attempt to raise a lady. and that doesn't mean what it use to mean so don't get it twisted. Teaching our kids to respect themselves and others isn't repressing them. 2w
  •   ladybrains @sarakrupinski_ just wanted to say I have crazy admiration for you and everything you've said on this lol. I was terrified to have a girl because of all I see (working in the mall especially).. I'd still be grateful if I had had a girl and if I ever do.. But I can imagine how much a chaos it is to guide them when there is so much saying otherwise. I'm sure you have a smart daughter who seems to be learning from a great woman. :) 2w
  •   cfifth @connietokes yo yo yo is jim johns hiring inside guys? 3d
  •   connietokes Yooooo. I'm sure they are. @cfifth 3d
  •   cfifth @connietokes imma come see u tomorrow and fill a app out 3d
  •   connietokes Cool. Come in the morning if you can around 1030 or 11. @cfifth 3d
  •   cfifth @connietokes sounds good momma con 3d

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connietokes Went to the beach today, feeling good in my two piece. Ain't none of you perfect either, but within ourselves we can define our own perfection. Today, I refound mine.#effyourbeautystandards #fatbabe #fatthighs #fatkini #phatass 2w

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connietokes Idk.
Even though the physical world doesn't truly exist, we pay a lot of attention to it.
#fat
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  •   red_nick I can relate, I'm a thin girl inside. #ivesaidtoomuch 2w
  •   bronzemonster Theres an emaciated bitch in us all. She ratchet tho. #bigbootysruletheworld 2w
  •   sarakrupinski_ I never really understood the point of this picture, it really creeps me out. I've come to realize everyone has their thing, black white brown tall short skinny fat and it's one persons POV yes I used a porn term either way, we all know in reality how many stupid people there are. Focus on the ones who focus on loving you and health cause that shit makes you feel good 2w

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connietokes Indescribable. 2w

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connietokes #wcw on my self before its over. Cause I'm the only one. #imalsoaloser 3w

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connietokes All of my plant babies, my breakfast, my self, Pooch, hand cut roses, and father's day gifts. Not Pictured: the roast I've been cooking since midnight, @mmmmmmalcolm because he is at work, and the dishes I just did. 4w

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connietokes Recently, I have made some life changes. I have continuously eaten clean and organic food for the last year or so, have drank mainly water (not from the faucet) and I have quit smoking cigarettes for over a month now. I have decided that I want a healthy beautiful physical body to match the soul inside. Today, I jogged this entire mile, even up hill. I am ready for this journey I have wanted for so long. Since January, I am down 30 pounds and can only get healthier. Any words of advice, encouragement, or tips would be greatly appreciated. I am open and in need of all love and support. 4w

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connietokes Organic vs GMO. Believe what ya heard and find out for yaself. #organic #organiconly you think you're eating healthy, until you make the true comparison. 1mon
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  •   connietokes Thank you! @bbobfatchick 1mon
  •   hurricanesandyy That's wild. Yeah strawberries are so big and fat but no flavor.... 1mon
  •   connietokes Everything is. EVERYTHING. Banana on the left was purchased at the Phoenix Earth Food Co-op. Bananas on the right were purchased at Walmart under the Dole brand. Consumer demands allow our food to be this way. If we stopped buying non organic products, they would cease to exist. @hurricanesandyy 1mon
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  •   hurricanesandyy Americans are all about huge ass portion sizes these days, they just want everything bigger. Well bigger isn't always better! @connietokes 4w
  •   connietokes Well said!! @hurricanesandyy 4w

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connietokes One more, before its over. #mcm #manofmydreamsmonday 1mon

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connietokes The johns in the John's. 1mon

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  •   connietokes I couldn't help but take photos while we were playing in the sun. He's just the best. 1mon
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connietokes Date night at the driveIn. 1mon

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