barbarajeannerelationships SO MANY RELATIONSHIPS 1 OF THE 2 OR EVEN BOTH ARE UNHAPPY. THE RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A HAPPY UNION. IT IS FILLED WITH ABUSE. ABUSE DOESN'T HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL IT CAN BE MENTAL AS WELL& IT'S JUST AS BAD. IT COULD BE THAT YOUR LOVEY SIGNIFICANT TALKS DOWN TO YOU, LIKES TO TROLL THE NET OR MEET UP WITH PEOPLE. THEY CAN DRINK & LIKE TO PARTY, OR MAYBE DOESN'T INCLUDE YOU IN THEIR LIFE. AS IF YOU ARE THE UNKNOWN. YET YOU STAY. YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF WHY ARE YOU STAYING? FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN OR NOT WANTING TO BE ALONE? YOU HAVE TO STEP BACK & ASK YOURSELF IS THIS WHO I WANT TO LIVE MY LIFE WITH? YOU'LL BE WASTING YOUR LIFE BEING MISERABLE WITH A PERSON YOU WILL GROW TO COMPLETELY DISLIKE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #closure #guy #girl #advice #counselor #sad #picoftheday #letitgo #happiness #barbarajeannerelationships 14h

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barbarajeannerelationships WE WANT THE GOOD LOOKING GUY, THE HOT GIRL THAT PROBABLY EVERYONE ELSE WANTS. IF WE DID GET A CHANCE MOST TIMES IT'S NOT WHAT YOU THOUGHT & MANY TIMES NOT WHAT YOU NEED. SO MANY TIMES THERE IS THAT PERSON IN THE WINGS WAITING HOPING THAT THEY MIGHT GET A CHANCE TO BE WITH YOU. THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE A CHANCE. BECAUSE THEY LOVE YOU FOR THE MERE FACT OF YOUR PRESENCE. THAT IS A KEEPER. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS WHAT YOU GET WHEN YOU LOVE THAT PERSON WHO TRULY WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. NOT THE FEELING OF THEY CAN TAKE OR LEAVE YOU. THAT'S NOT LOVE. THAT'S MAKING YOU AN OPTION 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships THIS IS HOW MOST RELATIONSHIPS GO NOW A DAYS. THERE IS NO REASON FOR THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE SEEING TO STOP CALLING OR DISAPPEAR BUT THEY DO. YOU BOTH SEEM TO BE FALLING. YOU JUST HAD A MAGICAL NIGHT. BUT SOMEHOW BETWEEN THEN & NOW THINGS CHANGED. YOU FEEL THE DISTANCE THE TEXT ARE LESS. SEEING YOU IS DOWN TO HARDLY EVER. DID YOU DO SOMETHING WRONG? ABSOLUTELY NOT. PEOPLE CAN FLASH IN & OUT OF YOUR HEART & LIFE. LIKE A TORNADO LEAVING YOU DESTROYED & A MESS. IS THERE ANYTHING YOU CAN DO TO FIGURE THIS OUT? NOT EXACTLY BUT WHEN THINGS HAPPEN NATURALLY, THERE IS A SENSE OF KNOWING & FEELING SECURE THAT THIS PERSON ISN'T GOING ANYWHERE. I'M NOT SAYING YOU'RE NOT GOING TO FIGHT OR DRIVE EACH OTHER CRAZY AT TIMES. IT'S A SENSE OF SECURITY THAT YOU FEEL CALM & RELAXED. YOU CAN BE YOURSELF COMPLETELY. NO MATTER WHAT THEY STILL ARE THERE. YOU CAN ASK THEM TO DO THINGS KNOWING THEY WILL. BECAUSE THEY TRULY CARE. THAT WAS WHAT WAS MISSING IN THE OTHERS. THEY MAY OF LIKED OR LOVE YOU. BUT THEY LOVE THEMSELVES MORE. AND THAT'S HOW IT WILL ALWAYS STAY. YUCK! 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships BEING IN LOVE IS SUCH AN AWESOME FEELING BUT IT SEEMS TO BE SO SHORT LIVED THESE DAYS. WHY DO WE FEEL THE NEED TO KEEP MOVING? ARE WE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING THAT DOESN'T EXIST, OR DO WE REALLY NOT GIVE A DAMN IF WE HAVE LOVE OR NOT? TRULY I THINK WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE MANY PEOPLE FEEL AS IF THEY DON'T WANT IT. (ESPECIALLY GUYS I WOULD HAVE TO SAY. ..NOT ALL BY ANY MANY) AND WHEN YOU AREN'T IN LOVE & CAN'T FIND IT, THEN WE WANT IT? SO BASICALLY IT'S THAT LIKE THAT OLD SAYING, WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. OR IS IT LIKE WHEN WE WERE LITTLE KIDS & WE WANTED THE TOY THAT THEY OTHER KID WAS PLAYING WITH??? BUT WE ARE ALL GROWN UP & LOVE IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. SO WHY O WHY WOULD WE PUSH SUCH A GOOD FEELING AWAY? #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 5d

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barbarajeannerelationships LET'S HAVE FUN. I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT & SAY HELLO TO MY INSTAGRAM FAMILY. I WANT YOU TO KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU ALL. I AM SO APPRECIATIVE FOR ALL MY FOLLOWERS THAT STAYED BY MY SIDE. WHEN I NEEDED TIME TO WORK ON MY BOOK LASTLY REMEMBER YOU MIGHT WANT LOVE SO MUCH THAT YOU FORGET THAT THE MOST ATTRACTIVE THING ON A WOMEN IS LAUGHTER. WHEN A GUY SEES A WOMEN HAVING FUN. IT'S LIKE KRYPTONITE IT DRAWS THEM TO YOU & MAKES THEM WANTS TO GET TO KNOW YOU! 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE RUIN HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS BECAUSE OF OUR CURIOSITY OF THE UNKNOWN. IS YOUR IMAGINATION WORTH WHAT IS REAL? #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN YOU ARE IN LOVE, MAKE SURE THE PERSON THAT YOU ARE INVESTING ALL THIS TIME AND LOVE IS RECIPROCATING THE FEELINGS BACK TO YOU. IT IS IMPORTANT. OR EVENTUALLY IT WILL COME TO AN END AND MOST LIKELY IT WILL BE YOU WITH THE BROKEN HEART 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE KNOW WHEN SOMEONE LOVES US SO MUCH THAT THEY LIVE TO LOVE YOU. SO MUCH THAT THEY WILL LITERALLY WAIT FOR YOU TO DECIDE IF YOU WANT THEM OR NOT. YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD CATCH YOU HAVE. BUT YOU MIGHT NOT BE READY. YOU MIGHT BE UP IN THE AIR IF THIS PERSON IS THE ONE. WHILE YOU ARE DOING YOUR THING DECIDING, YOU ARE PUTTING THIS PERSON THROUGH HELL. SADNESS, HURT, & I WOULD GUESS MANY NIGHTS OF CRYING THEMSELVES TO SLEEP. IT FEELS SHITTY WHEN THE PERSON YOU LOVE ACTS AS IF THEY DON'T CARE. BECAUSE YOU KNOW AT THIS POINT THEY DON'T. HOW DO YOU KNOW? WHEN THEY DID THINGS WERE AWESOME. BUT IF YOU ARE WAITING, STOP. IF YOU ARE KEEPING SOMEONE HANGING, STOP! IT' FEELS SHITTY TO WAIT BUT IT'S BAD KARMA TO ALLOW IT. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE ALWAYS SEEM TO FIND THE THINGS WE DON'T LIKE ABOUT OURSELVES. WE ALWAYS ANNOUNCE WHEN WE ARE HAVING A BAD DAY. WE NEED TO BECOME MORE POSITIVE & AWARE OF ALL OF OUR BLESSINGS. WHEN WE DO WE WILL CREATE A HAPPIER LIFE.WHY? BECAUSE OUR THOUGHTS ARE WHO WE ARE. READ MY ARTICLE. & PLEASE GIVE ME FEEDBACK. I AM THE RELATIONSHIP BLOGGER FOR A SITE CALLED VINTED WHAT'S SO AWESOME ABOUT THIS SITE IS THAT IT'S FOR GIRL OF ALL AGES. TALKING, ASKING QUESTIONS, OPENING UP & TALKING ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS. IT'S TRUE GIRL POWER & YOU CAN SELL YOUR CLOTHES IF YOU LIKE. AMAZING RIGHT. PLEASE USE THE LINK & COME JOIN US. LINK BELOW #Vinted #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #happy #healthy #life #vintedtreasure #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS IS IT A THING OF THE PAST OR ARE THEIR MANY HOPELESS ROMANTICS OUT THERE STILL WANTING ONE. I HAVE TO SAY BEING AS A HOPELESS ROMANTIC THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO STILL WANT TO BE IN LOVE WITH ONE PERSON FOR THAT ALWAYS & FOREVER. EVERYTHING THAT WE NEED TO SUCCEED IS FREE AS I SAID BEFORE. A HUG FROM BEHIND. A KISS ON THE FOREHEAD. RUB YOUR PARTNERS HEAD, BACK, SHOULDERS TENDERLY. ASK HOW THEIR DAY WAS & LISTEN. TAKE A NAP TOGETHER & SPOON. WATCH YOUR PARTNERS FAVORITE SHOW NOT BECAUSE YOU LIKE IT BUT BECAUSE THEY DO. HOLD HANDS WHILE WALKING. RUN A BATH WITH BUBBLES, CANDLES & GET N IT WITH YOUR PARTNER. THE LIST CAN GO ON & ON. IT IS AN AWESOME FEELING TO BE LOVED. WE HAVE TO THINK OF ALL THE GOOD THINGS & REASON FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU SHOW LOVE, HOPEFULLY YOU WILL RECEIVE LOVE. BUT YOU WON'T KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY. AND IT WON'T WORK TILL YOU GIVE IT YOUR ALL. BUT ONE PROBLEM THAT WE HAVE & WILL ULIMINATE MANY HEARTACHE. MAKE SURE YOU'RE ON THE SAME PAGE AS THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH. THIS GIVE YOUR ODDS OF MAKING IT A WHOLE LOT BETTER. DON'T HOPE YOU'LL CHANGE SOMEONE. THAT PROBABLY WON'T HAPPEN. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships LOVE IS ABOUT 2 PEOPLE CONNECTING. WITH THIS CONNECTION GROWS A LOVE THAT YOU SIMPLY CAN'T FIND WITH JUST ANYONE HOW IT USUALLY STARTS IS VISUAL OR YOU MIGHT LIKE THEIR PERSONALITY. BUT SOMETHING ABOUT THEM MADE YOU TAKE A LIKING TO THEM. 2 PEOPLE START TO GROW AS A COUPLE. YES THERE MAY BE OTHERS THAT CATCH YOUR EYE BUT THAT'S NORMAL. BUT IT IS ESTABLISHED THAT YOU 2 ARE NOW A COUPLE & YOU JUST DON'T THROW IT AWAY & GIVE UP ON THIS PERSON YOU FEEL FOR. YOU 2 ARE AN ITEM. SUMMERTIME YOU 2 DO ALMOST EVERYTHING TOGETHER. THE FAIRS, THE BEACH, PARTIES, A NIGHT OUT ON THE TOWN IS WITH YOU & YOUR PARTNER. TODAY WE MEET 1 SEE ANOTHER & WE WANT IT ALL. BUT THAT'S NOT REALITY. IT NEVER WAS. SO INSTEAD OF GETTING RELATIONSHIPS WE GET A BUNCH A MEANINGLESS GARBAGE. SO IT MAKES US NOT CARE IF IT WORKS OR NOT. BUT IF YOU WERE IN THE ERA THAT PROVED HOW AWESOME RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE THEN YOU'RE LUCKY. WE SHOULD BE SETTING AN EXAMPLE FOR THE YOUNGER GENERATION. NOT LOOK LIKE THE ONLY TIME WE WANT SOMEONE IS FOR SEX. TODAY'S GENERATION DOESN'T EVEN KNOW WHY YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP. LOVE & A RELATIONSHIP IS ESSENTIAL FOR LIFE. BUT WE WON'T KNOW WHY IF WE DON'T EVEN CARE TO HAVE THEM. SO MAYBE WE SHOULD TRY THE OLD SCHOOL WAY. FIND 1 PERSON THAT YOU LIKE. NOW READ FROM THE BEGINNING OF THIS POST & YOU MIGHT JUST FIND YOURSELF A GOOD OLD FASHION AWESOME RELATIONSHIP. A ONE & ONLY. A ALWAYS & FOREVER. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN OUR LOVE LIFE GOES SOUR & OUR HEARTS ARE ACHING WE ASK ANYONE & EVERYONE WHO WILL LISTEN WHAT THEY THINK. YOU TELL YOU STORY OVER & OVER. BUT YOU ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWER. AS MUCH AS IT'S GOING TO HURT IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE NAVIGABLE. STOP TALKING & START WALKING. IT MIGHT NOT BE OVER. BUT YOU WON'T KNOW WHILE YOUR THERE & THEY FEEL THAT CONFIDENT YOU DON'T HAVE IT IN YOU TO LEAVE. WELL SURPRISE THEM. IF THEY CARE TELL BE THERE. SOMETIMES IT TAKES THEM TOO LONG TO REALIZE & YOU WON'T CARE. BUT DO KNOW YOU DESERVE MUCH MORE THAN BULLSHIT. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES WE FALL FOR A PERSON THAT SEEMS AS THEY WERE SENT FROM HEAVEN & MANY TIMES THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT PUT US THROUGH HELL. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT WE CAN'T SEEM TO LET GO. WE'VE HEARD IT FROM ALMOST EVERY LITTLE GIRL FOR MONTHS NOW. EVEN THEY KNOW WHAT'S FROZEN. STUCK NOT BEING ABLE TO MOVE TO CHANGE YOUR SITUATION. YOU'RE FROZEN WITH THE WRONG PERSON. HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO HEAR IT OVER & OVER "LET IT GO! #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I BELIEVE SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY. DON'T FREEZE UP OR THINK IT'S GOING TO SOUND DUMB. WORDS UNSPOKEN ARE WORDS THAT WILL HAUNT YOU FOR A VERY LONG TIME WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE. I BY NO MEANS SAY TO BEG. BUT MAKE THOUGHS WORDS SO MEMORABLE THAT. WHEN YOU TURN TO WALK AWAY, I WANT YOU TO BE THINKING "DAMN THAT SOUNDED PRETTY F**KIN GOOD". WORDS WILL REPLAY IN YOUR HEAD OVER & OVER. SO DON'T REGRET AFTER THE FACT "I SHOULD OF SAID THAT. NOPE GET IT ALL OUT. THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING MORE TO SAY. DO REMEMBER THIS AS WELL. ANOTHER ASPECT TO THIS POST. DON'T FIGHT & LET SOMEONE YOU LOVE LEAVE. THOSE MIGHT BE YOUR LAST WORDS. THAT TOO WILL HAUNT YOU & YOU WILL REGRET. THOSE ARE MY WORDS OF WISDOM. #loveyourself #love #care #romantic #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I ONCE HAD A BOYFRIEND. I LOVED HIM SO MUCH BUT HE DRAINED ME, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, & FINANCIALLY. I FINALLY HAD TO TELL HIM, YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR EX, I TAKE CARE OF YOU. WHO'S TAKING CARE OF ME? NOBODY. SAD BUT IT WAS TRUE.. SO AFTER 4 YEARS I HAD TO LET HIM GO. IT'S EXHAUSTING TRYING TO KEEP SOMEONE HAPPY. YOU GIVING THEM TAKING. IN THE END WHAT HAPPENED? HE STILL WANTS ME BACK. IT'S TOO LATE, I'M SO DONE. SINCE WE ENDED HIS LIFE BECAME TOTAL CHAOS A DOWNWARD SPIRAL. KARMA? JUST MAYBE :) 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE WANT WHAT WE LOVE. BUT SOMETIMES IT CAN'T BE LOVE BECAUSE THERE IS NO LOVING INTERACTION. WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. OUR HEARTS ACHE WITH THE FACT THAT THIS PERSON DOESN'T WANT OR LOVE YOU. YOU HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING. STOP! YOU CAN'T FIGHT FOR SOMEONE WHO SIMPLY DOESN'T WANT YOU. YOU KNOW THIS. HAVE SOME DIGNITY & WALK AWAY. YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED. WE HAVE TO STOP CHASING THE DREAM OF WHAT MIGHT BE & LOVE OURSELVES MORE. WHEN WE DO THIS WE WILL FIND REAL LOVE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #life #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships Having the feeling of being loved is amazing. Being in the arms of the person you love is an absolutely amazing feeling. It's a feeling of peace, contentment, reassurance. A feeling of calm, protection & closeness. Makes us feel like everything is going to be ok. All the things that we truly want from our partner is free. That's something to think about. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships When a relationship starts & 2 people come together they feel that attraction, the want. If this person whom you are with is worth more than trying to find another. Worth more than hanging out with your friends. Why would we jeopardize ii. We need to keep the want. We need to feed the love. How? By being there. Showing love, by a kiss, a hug, answering the text we send. Pick a flower. Rub his back. Polish her toes, rub her feet.(lol) All these are free. Laugh, don't fight. If you care talk. When you start screaming, this brings animosity. Sugar gets you far more than salt. Create that want. It can't help every relationship but it sure can help many. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN WE WANT WE A PERSON WE WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING. WHICH IS SAD. ESPECIALLY FOR US GIRLS. WHEN WE ARE IN PURSUIT OF A GUY WE WE GIVE OUR HEART, OUR SOUL.. GIRLS WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING TO GET THIS GUY THERE HEART SEEMS TO WANT SO BADLY. BUT IT ALMOST SEEMS THE MORE WE DO THE FURTHER THEY GO. WE STILL USUALLY DON'T GET THEM, NOT FOR THE LONG HAUL. BECAUSE THIS GUY MIGHT LIKE ALL THE ATTENTION BUT IN REALITY GUYS LIKE TO CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT. MANY TIMES WE SEE THE GIRL THEY CHOOSE.& WE WONDER WHAT THE F**K. SOMEONE YOU'D NEVER THINK THEY'D CHOSE. PLEASE NOTE CHASING A PERSON DOESN'T DO MUCH BUT LEAVES YOU EXHAUSTED. A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS SOMEONE THAT YOU LIKE & LIKES YOU IN RETURN. THERE IS AN EASE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP FORMING.IT'S A NATURAL INTERACTION. NOT WORK TO GET THE PERSON TO WANT YOU. YOU KNOW THIS. IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE ISN'T FEELING YOU. LET IT GO. #letitgo #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships I WANT TO KISS.
I WANT TO HOLD YOUR HAND.
I WANT TO WATCH STUPID MOVIES WITH YOU.
I WANT TO HAVE A PILLOW FIGHT WITH YOU.
I WANT TO SEND YOU RANDOM & STUPID TEXTS.
I WANT TO PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR.
I WANT US TO LAUGH TOGETHER SO HARD UNTIL I CAN NO LONGER BREATHE.
I WANT TO DRIVE ANYWHERE & SING REAL LOUD TO OUR FAVORITE SONG.
I WANT TO DANCE WITH YOU & FEEL YOUR BREATHING IN MY EAR.
I WANT TO MAKE YOU SMILE AT RANDOM TIMES DURING THE DAY BECAUSE I'M ON YOUR MIND.
I WANT YOU.
ALL THESE THINGS ARE FREE & ARE WAYS TO HELP MAKE A RELATIONSHIP LAST. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #fun #me #you #barbarajeannerelationships
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