barbarajeannerelationships WE KNOW WHEN SOMEONE LOVES US SO MUCH THAT THEY LIVE TO LOVE YOU. SO MUCH THAT THEY WILL LITERALLY WAIT FOR YOU TO DECIDE IF YOU WANT THEM OR NOT. YOU KNOW WHAT A GOOD CATCH YOU HAVE. BUT YOU MIGHT NOT BE READY. YOU MIGHT BE UP IN THE AIR IF THIS PERSON IS THE ONE. WHILE YOU ARE DOING YOUR THING DECIDING, YOU ARE PUTTING THIS PERSON THROUGH HELL. SADNESS, HURT, & I WOULD GUESS MANY NIGHTS OF CRYING THEMSELVES TO SLEEP. IT FEELS SHITTY WHEN THE PERSON YOU LOVE ACTS AS IF THEY DON'T CARE. BECAUSE YOU KNOW AT THIS POINT THEY DON'T. HOW DO YOU KNOW? WHEN THEY DID THINGS WERE AWESOME. BUT IF YOU ARE WAITING, STOP. IF YOU ARE KEEPING SOMEONE HANGING, STOP! IT' FEELS SHITTY TO WAIT BUT IT'S BAD KARMA TO ALLOW IT. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #barbarajeannerelationships 7h

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barbarajeannerelationships WE ALWAYS SEEM TO FIND THE THINGS WE DON'T LIKE ABOUT OURSELVES. WE ALWAYS ANNOUNCE WHEN WE ARE HAVING A BAD DAY. WE NEED TO BECOME MORE POSITIVE & AWARE OF ALL OF OUR BLESSINGS. WHEN WE DO WE WILL CREATE A HAPPIER LIFE.WHY? BECAUSE OUR THOUGHTS ARE WHO WE ARE. READ MY ARTICLE. & PLEASE GIVE ME FEEDBACK. I AM THE RELATIONSHIP BLOGGER FOR A SITE CALLED VINTED WHAT'S SO AWESOME ABOUT THIS SITE IS THAT IT'S FOR GIRL OF ALL AGES. TALKING, ASKING QUESTIONS, OPENING UP & TALKING ABOUT THEIR PROBLEMS. IT'S TRUE GIRL POWER & YOU CAN SELL YOUR CLOTHES IF YOU LIKE. AMAZING RIGHT. PLEASE USE THE LINK & COME JOIN US. LINK BELOW #Vinted #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #happy #healthy #life #vintedtreasure #barbarajeannerelationships 2d

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barbarajeannerelationships LONG TERM RELATIONSHIPS IS IT A THING OF THE PAST OR ARE THEIR MANY HOPELESS ROMANTICS OUT THERE STILL WANTING ONE. I HAVE TO SAY BEING AS A HOPELESS ROMANTIC THAT THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO STILL WANT TO BE IN LOVE WITH ONE PERSON FOR THAT ALWAYS & FOREVER. EVERYTHING THAT WE NEED TO SUCCEED IS FREE AS I SAID BEFORE. A HUG FROM BEHIND. A KISS ON THE FOREHEAD. RUB YOUR PARTNERS HEAD, BACK, SHOULDERS TENDERLY. ASK HOW THEIR DAY WAS & LISTEN. TAKE A NAP TOGETHER & SPOON. WATCH YOUR PARTNERS FAVORITE SHOW NOT BECAUSE YOU LIKE IT BUT BECAUSE THEY DO. HOLD HANDS WHILE WALKING. RUN A BATH WITH BUBBLES, CANDLES & GET N IT WITH YOUR PARTNER. THE LIST CAN GO ON & ON. IT IS AN AWESOME FEELING TO BE LOVED. WE HAVE TO THINK OF ALL THE GOOD THINGS & REASON FOR A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. IF YOU SHOW LOVE, HOPEFULLY YOU WILL RECEIVE LOVE. BUT YOU WON'T KNOW UNTIL YOU TRY. AND IT WON'T WORK TILL YOU GIVE IT YOUR ALL. BUT ONE PROBLEM THAT WE HAVE & WILL ULIMINATE MANY HEARTACHE. MAKE SURE YOU'RE ON THE SAME PAGE AS THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH. THIS GIVE YOUR ODDS OF MAKING IT A WHOLE LOT BETTER. DON'T HOPE YOU'LL CHANGE SOMEONE. THAT PROBABLY WON'T HAPPEN. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships LOVE IS ABOUT 2 PEOPLE CONNECTING. WITH THIS CONNECTION GROWS A LOVE THAT YOU SIMPLY CAN'T FIND WITH JUST ANYONE HOW IT USUALLY STARTS IS VISUAL OR YOU MIGHT LIKE THEIR PERSONALITY. BUT SOMETHING ABOUT THEM MADE YOU TAKE A LIKING TO THEM. 2 PEOPLE START TO GROW AS A COUPLE. YES THERE MAY BE OTHERS THAT CATCH YOUR EYE BUT THAT'S NORMAL. BUT IT IS ESTABLISHED THAT YOU 2 ARE NOW A COUPLE & YOU JUST DON'T THROW IT AWAY & GIVE UP ON THIS PERSON YOU FEEL FOR. YOU 2 ARE AN ITEM. SUMMERTIME YOU 2 DO ALMOST EVERYTHING TOGETHER. THE FAIRS, THE BEACH, PARTIES, A NIGHT OUT ON THE TOWN IS WITH YOU & YOUR PARTNER. TODAY WE MEET 1 SEE ANOTHER & WE WANT IT ALL. BUT THAT'S NOT REALITY. IT NEVER WAS. SO INSTEAD OF GETTING RELATIONSHIPS WE GET A BUNCH A MEANINGLESS GARBAGE. SO IT MAKES US NOT CARE IF IT WORKS OR NOT. BUT IF YOU WERE IN THE ERA THAT PROVED HOW AWESOME RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE THEN YOU'RE LUCKY. WE SHOULD BE SETTING AN EXAMPLE FOR THE YOUNGER GENERATION. NOT LOOK LIKE THE ONLY TIME WE WANT SOMEONE IS FOR SEX. TODAY'S GENERATION DOESN'T EVEN KNOW WHY YOU NEED A RELATIONSHIP. LOVE & A RELATIONSHIP IS ESSENTIAL FOR LIFE. BUT WE WON'T KNOW WHY IF WE DON'T EVEN CARE TO HAVE THEM. SO MAYBE WE SHOULD TRY THE OLD SCHOOL WAY. FIND 1 PERSON THAT YOU LIKE. NOW READ FROM THE BEGINNING OF THIS POST & YOU MIGHT JUST FIND YOURSELF A GOOD OLD FASHION AWESOME RELATIONSHIP. A ONE & ONLY. A ALWAYS & FOREVER. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN OUR LOVE LIFE GOES SOUR & OUR HEARTS ARE ACHING WE ASK ANYONE & EVERYONE WHO WILL LISTEN WHAT THEY THINK. YOU TELL YOU STORY OVER & OVER. BUT YOU ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWER. AS MUCH AS IT'S GOING TO HURT IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO DO THE NAVIGABLE. STOP TALKING & START WALKING. IT MIGHT NOT BE OVER. BUT YOU WON'T KNOW WHILE YOUR THERE & THEY FEEL THAT CONFIDENT YOU DON'T HAVE IT IN YOU TO LEAVE. WELL SURPRISE THEM. IF THEY CARE TELL BE THERE. SOMETIMES IT TAKES THEM TOO LONG TO REALIZE & YOU WON'T CARE. BUT DO KNOW YOU DESERVE MUCH MORE THAN BULLSHIT. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships SOMETIMES WE FALL FOR A PERSON THAT SEEMS AS THEY WERE SENT FROM HEAVEN & MANY TIMES THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT PUT US THROUGH HELL. THOSE ARE THE ONES THAT WE CAN'T SEEM TO LET GO. WE'VE HEARD IT FROM ALMOST EVERY LITTLE GIRL FOR MONTHS NOW. EVEN THEY KNOW WHAT'S FROZEN. STUCK NOT BEING ABLE TO MOVE TO CHANGE YOUR SITUATION. YOU'RE FROZEN WITH THE WRONG PERSON. HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO HEAR IT OVER & OVER "LET IT GO! #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships I BELIEVE SAY WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY. DON'T FREEZE UP OR THINK IT'S GOING TO SOUND DUMB. WORDS UNSPOKEN ARE WORDS THAT WILL HAUNT YOU FOR A VERY LONG TIME WHEN YOU'RE IN LOVE. I BY NO MEANS SAY TO BEG. BUT MAKE THOUGHS WORDS SO MEMORABLE THAT. WHEN YOU TURN TO WALK AWAY, I WANT YOU TO BE THINKING "DAMN THAT SOUNDED PRETTY F**KIN GOOD". WORDS WILL REPLAY IN YOUR HEAD OVER & OVER. SO DON'T REGRET AFTER THE FACT "I SHOULD OF SAID THAT. NOPE GET IT ALL OUT. THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING MORE TO SAY. DO REMEMBER THIS AS WELL. ANOTHER ASPECT TO THIS POST. DON'T FIGHT & LET SOMEONE YOU LOVE LEAVE. THOSE MIGHT BE YOUR LAST WORDS. THAT TOO WILL HAUNT YOU & YOU WILL REGRET. THOSE ARE MY WORDS OF WISDOM. #loveyourself #love #care #romantic #barbarajeannerelationships #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships I ONCE HAD A BOYFRIEND. I LOVED HIM SO MUCH BUT HE DRAINED ME, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, & FINANCIALLY. I FINALLY HAD TO TELL HIM, YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR EX, I TAKE CARE OF YOU. WHO'S TAKING CARE OF ME? NOBODY. SAD BUT IT WAS TRUE.. SO AFTER 4 YEARS I HAD TO LET HIM GO. IT'S EXHAUSTING TRYING TO KEEP SOMEONE HAPPY. YOU GIVING THEM TAKING. IN THE END WHAT HAPPENED? HE STILL WANTS ME BACK. IT'S TOO LATE, I'M SO DONE. SINCE WE ENDED HIS LIFE BECAME TOTAL CHAOS A DOWNWARD SPIRAL. KARMA? JUST MAYBE :) 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE WANT WHAT WE LOVE. BUT SOMETIMES IT CAN'T BE LOVE BECAUSE THERE IS NO LOVING INTERACTION. WE WANT WHAT WE CAN'T HAVE. OUR HEARTS ACHE WITH THE FACT THAT THIS PERSON DOESN'T WANT OR LOVE YOU. YOU HAVE TRIED EVERYTHING. STOP! YOU CAN'T FIGHT FOR SOMEONE WHO SIMPLY DOESN'T WANT YOU. YOU KNOW THIS. HAVE SOME DIGNITY & WALK AWAY. YOU DESERVE TO BE LOVED. WE HAVE TO STOP CHASING THE DREAM OF WHAT MIGHT BE & LOVE OURSELVES MORE. WHEN WE DO THIS WE WILL FIND REAL LOVE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #life #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships Having the feeling of being loved is amazing. Being in the arms of the person you love is an absolutely amazing feeling. It's a feeling of peace, contentment, reassurance. A feeling of calm, protection & closeness. Makes us feel like everything is going to be ok. All the things that we truly want from our partner is free. That's something to think about. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships When a relationship starts & 2 people come together they feel that attraction, the want. If this person whom you are with is worth more than trying to find another. Worth more than hanging out with your friends. Why would we jeopardize ii. We need to keep the want. We need to feed the love. How? By being there. Showing love, by a kiss, a hug, answering the text we send. Pick a flower. Rub his back. Polish her toes, rub her feet.(lol) All these are free. Laugh, don't fight. If you care talk. When you start screaming, this brings animosity. Sugar gets you far more than salt. Create that want. It can't help every relationship but it sure can help many. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN WE WANT WE A PERSON WE WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING. WHICH IS SAD. ESPECIALLY FOR US GIRLS. WHEN WE ARE IN PURSUIT OF A GUY WE WE GIVE OUR HEART, OUR SOUL.. GIRLS WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING TO GET THIS GUY THERE HEART SEEMS TO WANT SO BADLY. BUT IT ALMOST SEEMS THE MORE WE DO THE FURTHER THEY GO. WE STILL USUALLY DON'T GET THEM, NOT FOR THE LONG HAUL. BECAUSE THIS GUY MIGHT LIKE ALL THE ATTENTION BUT IN REALITY GUYS LIKE TO CHOOSE WHO THEY WANT. MANY TIMES WE SEE THE GIRL THEY CHOOSE.& WE WONDER WHAT THE F**K. SOMEONE YOU'D NEVER THINK THEY'D CHOSE. PLEASE NOTE CHASING A PERSON DOESN'T DO MUCH BUT LEAVES YOU EXHAUSTED. A GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS SOMEONE THAT YOU LIKE & LIKES YOU IN RETURN. THERE IS AN EASE TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP FORMING.IT'S A NATURAL INTERACTION. NOT WORK TO GET THE PERSON TO WANT YOU. YOU KNOW THIS. IF YOU KNOW SOMEONE ISN'T FEELING YOU. LET IT GO. #letitgo #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships I WANT TO KISS.
I WANT TO HOLD YOUR HAND.
I WANT TO WATCH STUPID MOVIES WITH YOU.
I WANT TO HAVE A PILLOW FIGHT WITH YOU.
I WANT TO SEND YOU RANDOM & STUPID TEXTS.
I WANT TO PLAY WITH YOUR HAIR.
I WANT US TO LAUGH TOGETHER SO HARD UNTIL I CAN NO LONGER BREATHE.
I WANT TO DRIVE ANYWHERE & SING REAL LOUD TO OUR FAVORITE SONG.
I WANT TO DANCE WITH YOU & FEEL YOUR BREATHING IN MY EAR.
I WANT TO MAKE YOU SMILE AT RANDOM TIMES DURING THE DAY BECAUSE I'M ON YOUR MIND.
I WANT YOU.
ALL THESE THINGS ARE FREE & ARE WAYS TO HELP MAKE A RELATIONSHIP LAST. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #happiness #forever #fun #me #you #barbarajeannerelationships
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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP & YOU DISAPPOINT YOUR PARTNER JUST OWN IT LIKE IT'S YOURS. SO MANY PEOPLE MAKE UP EXCUSES WHEN THEY F**K UP IN SOME WAY. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES THINGS THAT ARE WRONG HERE & THERE, WELL NO ONE IS PERFECT. BUT IF IT'S HAPPENING A LOT, WELL THAT SHOWS NO CARE. IF YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT SOMEONE LET THEM GO. THEY MAY NOT BE STRONG ENOUGH TO DO SO. BUT DON'T PLAY SOMEONE LIKE A FOOL.THAT'S A BOX OF BAD KARMA GOING KICK YOU IN THE ASS. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #heart #karma #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships No matter how close you are in a relationship with a person words are exchanged. Many times especially guys will say things & at that moment they truly mean. But many guys have the tendency to not back those words. "I'll call you tomorrow" but don't. "I can't wait till the next time I see you as you say your goodbyes" and weeks pass. What's going on? With friends we seem to touch base of how were doing, how they're doing easily. But when it comes to relationships it seems hard. "You make me so happy". Then why do you see do little of me? A guy that said "I love you" to me was great for a good period but somehow I lost being a priority.I said you once told me "you got it wrong the first time with your ex wife but the second time with me you're going to get it right" I asked what happened to that. He replied "I don't know". Then he said that "he means every word, but when he leaves & he gets into his own mode of living he gets wrapped up into that". Point being. There are people or say but can't do. There are people that say and do. It's just your choice to pick the one that you're willing to deal with. But in the long run which do you think makes it for the long haul? You can't be in a relationship with someone that barely exists. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #heart #happiness #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I have missed you all so very much. I'm working on my book so I haven't been around so much. But I'm taking a break for the summer. And I'm excited to see what you all have been up to. I'm here if anyone needs advice. And I hope everyone is ready for a safe fabulous summer. Can't wait to catch up on your post & pics. Love, Barbara Jeanne P.S. thanks for all who stayed around to support me. I love you all #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships 8 NECESSARY WORD FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP. HOW MANY DO YOU & YOUR PARTNER USE? IF YOU ARE WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU DON'T FEEL THE NEED OR WANT TO USE OR SHOW THESE 8 WORDS, YOU NEED TO ASK YOURSELF IF YOU ARE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON. IF YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER ENOUGH TO NOT WANT TO LOSE THEM IT'S TIME TO START PRACTICING THESE 8 IMPORTANT WORDS THAT WILL SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships I CAN'T SEEMS TO SAY THIS ENOUGH. HOW IMPORTANT IT IS TO HAVE THAT PERSON YOU COME HOME TO. THAT PERSON YOU CALL BEFORE YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES. PEOPLE THINK THEY DON'T NEED THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE. TO GROW WITH, CREATE MEMORIES, TO HOLD, TO NURTURE, & MOST OF ALL TO LOVE. SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE YOU MIGHT GET SICK, YOU WILL GROW OLD. AND IF YOU DON'T CARE, YOU WILL BE ALONE. WHY? YOU WERE TO BUSY WITH YOUR ONLINE FRIENDS MANY FORGET THE FEELING OF THE HUMAN TOUCH. YOU DIDN'T SEE THE NEED. YOU DIDN'T MAKE THE TIME. YOU THINK WHY? I'M GOOD I CAN DO EVERYTHING I NEED. LOVE MAKES YOUR LIFE ACCELERATE TO A HIGHER LEVEL. WE ARE LOSING THE NEED FOR THE HUMAN TOUCH
WE NEED FACE TO FACE INTERACTION. WE NEED TO BE LOVED BY A SIGNIFICANT OTHER. WE NEED TO GET OFF OUR COMPUTERS, LAPTOPS, TABLETS, & PHONES & GET OUT. THERE ARE PEOPLE ALL OVER LOOKING FOR LOVE. DON'T BE AFRAID TO SHOW WHO YOU ARE. YOU MIGHT TO ACTUALLY HAVE A CONVERSATION FACE TO FACE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #heart #picoftheday #happy #hug #kiss #barbarajeannerelationships
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  •   olejnikp @barbarajeannerelationships To plant our footing in this world is not a goal, but rather it's to express Gods love while hanging onto a hope of something greater ... everlasting intimacy with our maker. 3w
  •   htodak2 #amen sister!! 3w
  •   alc1996 Love this it's so so true people have lost how to show love the world needs to put down the phones etc and learn to touch laugh and love again 3w
  •   gd537 @barbarajeannerelationships I will say sorry if I hurt anyone and thanx to the one hurt me 3w
  •   risa_916 S/o? (: 3w
  •   sherry_franklin Being pronounced terminally ill I have seriously pondrred that question and personally my D.N.R paperwork filed. I would want my husband and son to give me one final kiss and hug and to have them know my pain is over and the suffering gone with me. Im am also Irish and belive an irish wake not to mourn my death but celibrate my life. Ive made my peace. 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships OUR HEARTS BREAKS WHEN THE PERSON WE LOVE DOESN'T BOTHER TO TEXT. TO CALL OR SEE US. WE CRY & MIGHT EVEN SAY "I'M DONE". BUT EVERY TIME THEY TEXT WE CAN'T HELP IT, OUR LIGHTS UP WITH HOPE. BUT IT'S A TOKEN TEXT OR THEY WANT TO SEE YOU FINALLY AFTER A MONTH. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THIS. LET THEM GO. YEA YOU MIGHT CRY. BUT ONCE YOU'RE DONE DON'T EVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO CRY OVER THIS PERSON AGAIN! #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #closure #couple #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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barbarajeannerelationships DID YOU EVER FEEL SAD & SOMEONE HUGS YOU SOMETIMES YOU FEEL ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS & OTHER TIMES YOU BREAK DOWN & CRY. NOT IN A BAD WAY BUT IN A WAY, I NEEDED THAT & SOMEONE DOES CARE. WHEN A GUY HOLDS ME & PUTS HIS ARMS AROUND ME I FEEL LOVED, PROTECTED, WANTED, COMFORTED, A RELAXATION THAT YOU WANT TO CAPTURE & SEIZE. A HUG IS FREE BUT DOES WONDERS. SMALL GESTURES LIKE THIS IS THE KEY TO A HEALTHY LASTING RELATIONSHIP. #loveyourself #love #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #believe #heart #happines #barbarajeannerelationships 4w

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