barbarajeannerelationships I HAVE TO COME CLEAN & BE HONEST. I HAVE BEEN RESEARCHING THE SUBJECT OF LOVE SINCE I WAS A CHILD. THROUGHOUT HIGH SCHOOL THEN COLLEGE. I HAVE TO SAY THIS STRAIGHT UP. WHEN WOMEN FALL WE FALL HARD. ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S NEW & IN THE BEGINNING. WE DEVOTE OUR TIME THINKING ABOUT THIS PERSON. THINKING OF WAYS TO MAKE THEM HAPPY. WE WILL GO TO THE ENDS OF THE EARTH FOR THIS GUY. BUT SEE NOW THE GUY AT THIS POINT IS DOING & SAYING ALL THE RIGHT THINGS. HE MAY MEAN THEM BUT IN THE LONG RUN HE CAN'T PULL IT OFF. EITHER FEELING HE WENT TO FAST, IN TOO DEEP. SO THE GUY BACKS OFF & IT MAKES THE GIRL FEEL SHITTY A BIT HEART BROKEN. THE GUY CALLS LESS, TEXT LESS, SOMETIMES YOU DON'T EVEN ANSWER YOUR PHONE & WE KNOW YOU HAVE IT ON YOU. COME ON. GIRLS TRY HARDER TO MAKE IT THE WAY IT WAS. IF THEY REALLY LIKE YOU THEY WILL GIVE IT ALL THEY CAN GIVE. BUT ALL A GUY CAN GIVE IS A CALL OR TEXT WHEN YOU CROSS THEIR MIND. I TRULY BELIEVE SOME MEN DON'T GIVE AS THEY SHOULD IN A RELATIONSHIP. SO FINALLY THE GIRL GIVES UP AFTER MANY TEARS.THEN THE GUY IS THE ONE THAT IS HEART BROKEN. BUT THE THING IS THIS MEN STAY STUCK. RUINED & NOW THEY ARE UNHEALTHY FOR ANY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP. ONCE GIRLS MOVE ON. THEY MAY HAVE BAGGAGE BUT WHEN THEY FALL. THEY WILL FALL JUST AS HARD. AND THE EX IS STILL WONDERING & HURTING. SO WE NEED TO GET BACK ON THE SAME PAGE & REMEMBER YOU GET WHAT YOU GIVE. IF YOU DON'T GIVE EVENTUALLY IT DIES. AND GUYS I KNOW GIRLS HAVE DIFFERENT ISSUES. BUT AS A START IF YOU SHOW THEM LOVE NOT FOR SEX BUT BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM. 90% OF THESE GIRLS WILL GIVE YOU THE BEST LOVIN YOU EVER DID HAVE. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #picoftheday #happines #barbarajeannerelationships 7h

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barbarajeannerelationships This is for girls/guys with broken hearts. A broken heart ia a broken heart
FORGET HIM
Forget his name
Forget his face
Forget his kisses
His warm embrace
Forget the love that you once knew
Remember he was wasn't true
Forget him when they play your song
Remember when you cried all night long
Forget how close you once were
Remember he has chosen her
Forget how you memorized his walk
Forget the way he used to talk
Forget the things he used to say
Remember he has gone away
Forget his laugh forget his grin
Forget the dimples on his chin
Forget the way he held you tight
Remember he's with her tonight
Forget the time that went so fast
Forget the love that moved, it's past
Forget he said he'd leave you never
Remember he's gone forever.
Getting over a broken heart is one of the hardest things. It effects every aspect of your life. So take your time & when your completely done. It's over now leave them behind.
I'm always here to help with love!
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barbarajeannerelationships I AM NOT NECESSARILY TALKING ABOUT THE SONG SCRUB'S WHERE TLC SAY "I DON'T WANT SCRUB" NO CAR, NO JOB &LIVING AT HOME WITH YOUR MAMA. BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY WHEN THE GUY ISN'T DOING RIGHT BY YOU. YET GIRLS SPREAD THEIR LEGS OPEN SO EASILY & GIVE THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT YOU HAVE. YOU! IF GIRLS STOOD BY AS A WHOLE & MADE MEN KNOW THAT YOU WON'T ACCEPT ANYTHING BUT GOOD, GREAT AWESOME. BEFORE THEY GET THE GOODS. THEY WOULD TREAT YOU THE WAY YOU SHOULD BE TREATED. WITH WORTH & VALUE. #love #loveyourself #guys #girls #you #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships 3d

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barbarajeannerelationships I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT TO SAY HAPPY EASTER. REMEMBER AS YOU IDOLIZE & SPEND SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME ON NONSENSE. DON'T FORGET THE MOST IMPORTANT ONE TO SPEND TIME WITH IS GOD. NOT ONLY WHEN IN NEED BUT EVERY DAY. LOTS OF LOVE. YOU ARE ALL ALWAYS IN MY PRAYERS. GOD BLESS 4d

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barbarajeannerelationships We all have those people that have broken our hearts & have left us n pieces. What's worse so many times without care. They may pretend they care but as they are walking away they are most likely having a feeling of relief & freedom. While we sit there broken barely able to pick ourselves up. Yes we may cry. Yes we might think we can live without them. But in reality we do. And what we have to realize is that we don't want someone who doesn't want us.That could walk away so easily & be selfish enough to call us if they become weak, bored or might want a little booty. We have to pick ourselves up & not settle for anyone other than someone that truly is sure they want us. Settling isn't an option nor are we a choice. Just to make that absolutely clear. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #closure #guy #girl #advice #counselor #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships MANY TIMES WE FIND THE RIGHT PERSON & EVERYTHING IS ABSOLUTELY PERFECT. BUT FOR ONE REASON OR ANOTHER WE GET LAZY. MAYBE A BIT BORED. WE TREAT OUR LOVE LIKE YESTERDAY'S NEWS. WE FORGET TRUE LOVE IS EXTREMELY HARD TO FIND. SO MAKE SURE YOU CHERISH IT. MANY PEOPLE JUST EXIST UNTIL ONE DAY THEY REALIZE THEY HAVE BECOME STRANGERS. THAT SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP IS NO LONGER. BEFORE YOU WANDER INTO ANOTHER PERSONS TERRITORY. KNOW THAT YOU MIGHT BE LEAVING THE BEST THING YOU EVER HAD, OR WILL EVER HAVE. THINK BEFORE YOU LEAP. YOU MIGHT NEVER FIND SOMEONE TO CATCH YOU. NEVER FORGET THAT TRUE LOVE IS A BLESSING & TREAT IT AS SUCH! #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #forever #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships I AM HERE TO HOPEFULLY TEACH PEOPLE HOW IMPORTANT TRUE LOVE IS. IT MAKES LIFE AMAZINGLY WONDERFUL.ALTHOUGH WE SEEM TO PICK THE WRONG PERSON AT TIMES BUT THAT'S OK. WHAT'S NOT OK IS WHEN THINGS START GOING TERRIBLY WRONG. INSTEAD OF DISENGAGING OURSELVES FROM THIS PERSON WE SEEM TO STICK LIKE GLUE & SEEM TO BE STUCK WITH "I CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THIS PERSON". WE HAVE TO STOP WASTING OUR TIME. THE LONGER YOU STAY IN A DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP. THE MORE YOU GET USED TO BEING TREATED BADLY. AND IT SNOWBALLS N A NEGATIVE DIRECTION. LET'S LOVE & IF IT'S WRONG KEEP IT MOVING. YOU LIVED WITHOUT THIS PERSON FOR HOW LONG YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT THEM AFTERWARDS. YOU'LL LIVE. YOU'LL LOVE. MY GOAL IS TO GET PEOPLE MATCHED UP TO THEIR MATES. IMPOSSIBLE MAYBE. BUT I'M WILLING TO TAKE ON THIS CHALLENGE. WHAT CAN I SAY I'M A HOPELESS ROMANTIC. 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WAITING FOR A PERSON TO REALIZE IF THEY WANT YOU OR NOT IS PURE TORTURE. WHATEVER THE SITUATION IS. IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER FOR ONE, IT'S OVER. THERE IS NO NEED TO SIT & WAIT TO SEE IF THEY REALIZE THEY LOVE & WANT YOU. MOVE ON. I HEAR OF THIS SITUATION EVERY DAY. YOU HAVE TO REALLY UNDERSTAND YOU ARE TOO PRECIOUS TO BE "I'M NOT SURE IF I LOVE OR WANT YOU". THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE SINGLE & MINGLE. BUT WHILE THEY ARE YOU SHOULD BE DOING THIS AS WELL. DON'T SIT THERE MOPING. CRYING OVER SOMEONE OR TREATED YOU LIKE YOU WEREN'T A CHOICE & DIDN'T WANT YOU. PULL UP YOU BIG GIRL (OR BOY) PANTS. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH & FIND A LOVE THAT ACTUALLY DOESN'T NEED TO BE SINGLE & MINGLE. FIND SOMEONE THAT SIMPLY LOVES YOU FOR YOU. YES YOU & ONLY YOU 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE HAVE HEARD THIS SAYING SINCE SEX N THE CITY. WHEN IT WAS SAID PEOPLE THOUGHT THAT'S WHAT I WANT THAT PERSON THAT PUTS BUTTERFLIES IN MY TUMMY. THE ONE THAT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE A SCHOOL GIRL (OR BOY) N LOVE. BUT IN REAL LIFE THE ONES THAT MAKE YOU GIDDY USUALLY ARE THE ONES THAT BREAKS YOUR HEART. THE ONE THAT ISN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP. IT'S STRANGE HOW THE ONE THAT WE WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR SEEMS TO ALWAYS BE THE ONE THAT TREATS YOU LIKE SHIT. IS IT THE CHALLENGE WE WANT, OR WE LIKE BEING TREATED BADLY? EITHER WAY WE STAY N THESE DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIPS UNTIL WE FINALLY SAY ENOUGH. THE SAD PART IS THEY MIGHT FEEL A SMALL FEELING OF LOSS BUT WE WALK AWAY A MESS. MAYBE WE DON'T NEED THE BUTTERFLIES OR THE CHALLENGE. MAYBE WHAT WE NEED IS SOMEONE THAT SIMPLY LOVES & WANTS US. 1w

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barbarajeannerelationships Sometimes we meet someone we are so excited to be with we wonder, get scared if they knew about this or that. Would they still liked me. We literally work ourselves up to thinking up lies or how to sugar coat it. The thing is when you meet someone and it's right they are the ones that seem to know everything from the start. Why? Because they are there by your side & care to know everything about you without judging you. And for that you open up yourself & your life & let them in. That's what so marvelous when you find someone who is right. Your lives mesh. You collide and from the start you become a couple. That's how you know it's right. And you won't be asking everyone "what do you think this means? 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships IT SO IMPORTANT TO ME.FOR YOU ALL TO KNOW HOW MUCH I TRULY LOVE YOU ALL MY INSTAGRAM FAMILY. I PUT IN AROUND THE CLOCK HOURS TO HELP PEOPLE THAT NEED ADVICE. I WANT YOU TO KNOW I'M ALWAYS HERE. EITHER DIRECT MESSAGE ME ON INSTAGRAM OR KIK ME AT BARBARAJEANNE1983. SENDING YOU ARE A TON OF WARM LOVE. OH IN DON'T GET TO IT ADD OFTEN AS I WOULD LIKE BUT IF YOU NEED YOU CAN WRITE ME AT RELATIONSHIPSERVICEXO@GMAIL.COM. BE HEALTHY HAPPY & LOVE ALL PEOPLE IT'S ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL FOR LIFE. 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships IF YOU AREN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP DON'T ACT LIKE YOU ARE. DON'T MAKE PROMISES THAT YOU CAN'T KEEP.& YOU HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF KEEPING. THAT'S EVEN WORSE. SOME PEOPLE JUST WANT TO CONQUER & THEY WILL DO ALMOST ANYTHING TO GET WHAT THEY WANT & SIMPLY BAIL. COME ON YOU KNOW THAT IS A BIG CAN OF WHIP ASS COMING YOUR WAY. YOU WON'T ACTUALLY BE PAYING WITH MONEY FOR DOING WRONG & HURTING A PERSON. BUT YOU WILL BE PAYING FOR IT. MY GUESS IS YOU PROBABLY KNOW WHAT BAD KARMA iS? WHEN YOUR SHIT GETS ALL F**KED UP. BUT YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO DO THE RIGHT THING. IT'S ALL UP TO YOU. #Karma #loveyourself #love #you #advice #counselor #picoftheday #redflags #relationship #rude #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships SO THE IDIOT I WAS TALKING ABOUT YESTERDAY TURNED OUT TO BE A DOOZY. HE STARTED SO STRONG, FULL SPEED AHEAD. IT WAS RATHER PECULIAR, WHEN HE CAME TO SEE ME (HE LIVED & HOUR AWAY) HE WAS100% IN. I FELT ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS. BUT WHY COULDN'T HE GIVE MORE? THIS IS WHAT HE ACTUALLY SAID "WHEN HE LEAVES IT'S LIKE A SWITCH, HE TURNS INTO HOME MODE". THIS MEANT THAT HE WAS OK GOING ABOUT DOING HIS DAILY NECESSITIES, WORK & BEING ALONE. BUT WITH THIS ALSO CAME SELFISHNESS & NO CARE. YEAH I KNOW I CAN REALLY CAN PICK THE WINNERS. HERE'S THE POINT. GUYS THAT ARE NOT READY WILL GO 2 STEPS FORWARD, THEN 3 STEPS BACK. SO THE RELATIONSHIP DOESN'T GROW. SO YOU NEVER GET TO THE LEVEL OF MARRIAGE. iTS ALMOST AS YYOU START EACH TIME FROM SCRATCH. YOU GROW IN THE SENSE YOU KNOW THEM LONGER. YOU CAN BE COMMITTED & MAGNANIMOUS BUT IF YOU AREN'T GROWING AS A COUPLE, HE DOESN'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT YOU ASKING SERIOUS QUESTIONS. I DON'T FIGHT TOO OFTEN BECAUSE I FEEL THE GUYS KNOWS EXACTLY WHAT HE IS DOING SO WHY BE AN IDIOT & NAG. THEY SHOULD WANT TO BE THERE. WANT TO GROW CLOSER. BUT INSIDE GIRLS FEEL HOLLOW, ALONE. THAT'S NOT HOW YOU SHOULD FEEL IN A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. DON'T WAIT TO SEE IF THEY GET READY. YOU MIGHT GROW OLD, SHRIVEL UP & DIE WAITING. WE WASTE TOO MANY TEARS ON THE WRONG PERSON. ACTUALLY THERE SHOULD BE TEARS, HEARTACHE OR SADNESS. BUT YOU KNOW THAT. SO IF YOU'RE IN THIS SITUATION. STEP BACK & BACK & BACK. YEAH KEEP GOING. THUS PERSON SUCKS & YOU DESERVE BETTER. # heartbroken #happiness #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #counselor #advice #redflags #barbarajeannerelationships 2w

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barbarajeannerelationships GIRLS JUST WANT TO FEEL LOVED IN A RELATIONSHIP. BUT SOMETIMES GUYS PUSH US UNTIL WE FLIP. LET ME GIVE YOU AN EXAMPLE. IT WAS A HOT SUMMER DAY & MY BOYFRIEND WAS PLAYING GOLF. HE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE BACK AT 5PM TO TAKE ME OUT. HE DIDN'T MAKE 5.. I FINALLY TALK TO HIM & HE SAID HE'D BE THERE AT 6PM. YEAH THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN. THEN HE TOLD ME HE DIDN'T WANT TO BE RUDE. HE WAS TALKING TO THE BARTENDER & HE WAS GIVING HIM SHOTS. HERE I AM DRESS TO IMPRESS WITH CURLS IN MY HAIR. DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO KEEP CURLS IN YOUR HAIR ON A HOT SUMMER NIGHT? IT'S F**KING HARD. HE FINALLY STROLLS IN AT 8PM & DRUNK NOT ONLY 3 HOURS LATE, HE CAN'T SAY I'M SORRY. SO IF YOU LET THEM. THEY DO SHIT LIKE THIS. AND MANY DO ACCEPT THIS KIND OF CRAP. THAT'S WHAT THIS IS CRAP. A CRAPPIE ASSHOLE & A CRAPPIE RELATIONSHIP. SOME PEOPLE JUST DON'T GET WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS. AND HOW TO MAINTAIN IT. BUT HERE'S THE THING. WITH THE RIGHT PERSON THEY WON'T DO THIS TO YOU & IF IT DID HAPPEN THEY WOULD SAY I'M SORRY.. YOU WON'T HAVE TO BRING THE BITCH OUT OF YOU TO FIGHT THEM FOR AN APOLOGY. AND I AM VERY EASY GOING. BUT WHEN IT GET TO A POINT OF RUDENESS & NO CARE. WOW! BUT WHAT DID I DO? FOUGHT FOR AN APOLOGY & STILL WENT OUT. WHAT SHOULD I HAVE DONE? SAY GET THE F**K OUT & GO F**K THE BARTENDER. #loveyourself #guy #girl #relationship #karma #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE NEED TO GET STRONGER LADIES. I'M TALKING TO GIRLS OF ALL AGES. WE DO EVERYTHING & ANYTHING TO PLEASE OUR MAN. TO MAKE SURE OUR MAN STAYS INTERESTED. IT IS ALMOST TYPICAL NOW. THAT A GUY MEETS A GIRL & DOES EVERYTHING TO CONQUER HER. THEN LOSES INTEREST. US GIRLS TRY SO HARD TO GET BACK WHAT WAS. BECAUSE THEY'RE CALLING LESS, TEXTING LESS & SEEING YOU LESS. WE KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG. LISTEN STOP! STOP TREATING THESE GUYS LIKE THEY ARE KING. THE ONLY THING THAT IS WRONG IS THEY BELIEVE IT & THINK THEY'RE IN DEMAND. YOU KNOW HOW NO ONE WANTS THE GUY TILL THEY'RE TAKEN. THE ONLY TIME THAT YOU SHOULD TREAT YOU GUY SPECIAL, IS WHEN THEY ARE THEIR BY YOUR SIDE MAKING YOU FEEL AWESOME. WE GOT TO RESPECT OURSELVES ENOUGH. IF THEY SHOW NO INTEREST. THAT'S FINE. BECAUSE THIS RELATIONSHIP IS ALL WRONG. WHEN IS IT RIGHT? WHEN IT'S SO EFFORTLESS YOU FEEL LOVED, CONTENT & YOUR NOT WAITING FOR THEIR CALL OR TEXT BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS WANT TO BE WITH YOU. #love #loveyourself #redflags #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships ITS SAD BUT TRUE. MANY RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T THE TYPE THAT YOU SEE ON TV. I WISH THEY WERE BECAUSE I AM A HOPELESS ROMANTIC. BUT SOMETIMES YOU FIND A PERSON THAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE TELLING YOUR SECRETS TO. OPENING YOUR HEART & YOU ALLOW THEM TO SEE EVERY SIDE OF YOU. BUT IT'S OK TO HAVE SECRETS. I'M NOT SAYING "I CHEATED SECRET". NO SILLY. I MEAN GIRLS MIGHT NOT WANT TO TELL THEIR GUY THE NEED TO WAX THEIR MUSTACHE. OR THAT YOU PICK YOU BLACKHEADS. AND GUYS LIKE TO KEEP THE STUPIDEST SECRETS SOMETIMES JUST SO THEY KNOW THE STILL HAVE A PIECE OF THEIR OWN MIND. IT'S OK. AS LONG AS THE LOVE IS THERE & YOU KNOW IT. RELAX! WE NEED TO START LEARNING HOW TO GET GIRLS AND GUYS TO COMMUNICATE. WHEN WE DO WE MIGHT JUST GET YOUR OWN PERSONAL ROMANCE NOVEL. TO ME THAT'S WOULD SATISFY THAT I HELP PEOPLE FIND LOVE & WHEN THEY DO.KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH IT. TO KEEP IT. LOVE WHEN RIGHT IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #happiness #romantic #forever #picoftheday #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHAT MAKES A RELATIONSHIP DIFFERENT THAN ANOTHER? OR IF GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY COULD YOU FALL EACH TIME? SO EVERYONE YOU DATE HAS THE POTENTIAL OF BEING THE RIGHT ONE? I THINK THE RIGHT PERSON CAN COME AT ANY AGE. UNFORTUNATELY WHEN WE ARE YOUNGER WE GO OFF TO COLLEGE?, WE WANT TO EXPLORE & SEE WHO'S OUT THERE. BUT IN DOING SO, DO WE MISS OUT IN OUR SOUL MATE? I MET A GREAT LOVE OF MY LIFE IN JR.YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL. I THINK BACK I KNOW HE WOULD OF BEEN A WONDERFUL PARTNER TO MARRY. BUT I BROKE UP WITH HIM,BREAKING HIS HEART THINKING I NEEDED TO SEE WHAT'S OUT THERE. ONLY TO MARRY WHEN I WAS 18 TO SOMEONE I MET IN COLLEGE. WE DIDN'T MAKE IT.BUT I LOOK BACK NOW & I SEE THAT WE MAKE THE WRONG CHOICE SO MANY TIMES. I THINK WE NEED TO PUT MORE TIME IN TO THINKING WHO WE ARE BRINGING INTO OUR LIVES. SOMEONE WITH BAGGAGE, YOU'LL PROBABLY END UP HELPING THEM CARRY AROUND THEIR LOAD A SHIT FROM WHEREVER IT CAME FROM. YOUTH, ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP, WHATEVER MONSTERS THEY HAVE IN THEIR HEAD. YOU GOT TO BE HEALTHY TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. THINK TWICE BEFORE ENTERING INTO A RELATIONSHIP SO THAT YOU DON'T END UP IN A F**KED UP DYSFUNCTIONAL RELATIONSHIP. AND FOR SOME DAMN REASONS. THOSE HARD TO WALK AWAY FROM. #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #guy #girl #advice #counselor #picoftheday #happy #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships THERE IS A SAYING "DONT BURN YOUR BRIDGE". THAT MEANS WHAT WAS IS NO LONGER. THINK HARD BEFORE YOU HURT SOMEONE THAT IS PROBABLY ABSOLUTELY IN LOVE WITH YOU. NOT ONLY THAT THEY'D GO TO THE END OF THE EARTH & BACK. BUT FOR SOME THAT'S NOT ENOUGH. WHY? I HEAR PEOPLE SAY I JUST DON'T FEEL IT FOR THIS PERSON. BUT THIS IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW. THOSE RELATIONSHIPS & PEOPLE WHO YOU CAN DISREGARD SO EASILY. THOSE ARE THE PEOPLE THAT WILL MAKE YOU LIFE EFFORTLESS & THAT IS HOW LOVE SHOULD BE. ALL THE CHEMISTRY THAT WE ALWAYS BELIEVE WE NEED, EVENTUALLY LEAVES & WE ARE LEFT MANY TIMES WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE DEMANDING, NOT SO EASY TO PLEASE. SO IF YOU FIND SOMEONE REALLY IN LOVE WITH YOU.. GIVE THEM A CHANCE. YOU MIGHT BE PLEASANTLY SURPRISED. YOU MIGHT SAY NO. BUT THINK ABOUT IT NEXT TIME YOU'RE DOING CIRCLES AROUND SOMEONE YOU WANT... SOMETIMES SIMPLE IS BETTER. DON'T BURN THE BRIDGE THAT YOU CAN'T CROSS BACK OVER TO SAY "YOU'RE THE ONE"! #loveyourself #love #you #advice #counselor #relationship #happiness #romantic #heart #barbarajeannerelationships 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WE HAVE TO STOP PLAYING WITH PEOPLE'S LIVES & HEARTS. WE ARE SELFISH & THINK OF OUR OWN NEEDS & WANTS. WE AREN'T SURE IF WE WANT A PERSON & WE KEEP THEM IN THE WINGS. FOR A BOOTY CALL OR JUST IN CASE. SOMEONE ELSE FALLS THROUGH.A PERSON MIGHT CHASE YOU, OR MAY THINK THEY HAVE A CHANCE. IF YOU HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF BEING WITH A PERSON SIMPLY TELL THEM. YES THEY'LL BE HURT BUT THEY'LL GET OVER YOU. IF YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE & YOUR CHEATING, LYING & NOT DOING RIGHT BY THEM. THIS IS ABUSE. THEN YOU WONDER WHY THEY MIGHT GO CRAZY ON YOUR ASS. EVENTUALLY WHEN YOU PLAY GAMES YOU WILL LOSE. & DO NOT FORGET ABOUT KARMA. #karma #loveyourself #love #relationship #happiness #hurt #guy #girl #advice #counselor #picoftheday #unhealthy #barbarajeannerelationshipservice 3w

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barbarajeannerelationships WHEN YOU START ANY RELATIONSHIP IT HAS TWO COURSES IT CAN GO. THAT YOU BOTH CAN'T GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER OR IT STARTS COMPLICATE.. FROM THERE THEY BOTH GO IN 2 DIRECTION. GETS BETTER OR WORSE. IF IT GET BETTER YOU HAVE A CHANCE 2 SEE WHERE IT GOES. IF IT GETS WORSE YOU NEED TO LET GO. IT DOESN'T SERVE ANY HEALTHY PLACE OR PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE. STAYING IS JUST YOUR SICK WAY OF TORTURING YOURSELF & CREATING DRAMA. IF YOU FEEL YOU'RE NOT WANTED. YOU'RE NOT. SADLY IT'S YOUR TIME TO LEAVE. NOTHING HAS TO BE FORMAL. BECAUSE IF THE OTHER PERSON SHOWS NO CARE SAYING GOODBYE IS JUST A WASTE. THEY HAVE ALREADY CHECKED OUT. #leave #loveyourself #love #care #healthy #relationship #closure #guy #girl #advice #counselor #sad #picoftheday #letitgo #happiness #barbarajeannerelationshipservice 4w

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